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Tips for Dealing with Unrealistic/Oblivious Boss(es)
Hollyj replied to Jibralta's topic in Career, Money and Education
It may be the way they are, but can't they recognize that it is to the detriment of their company? "I was hired to be an expert because the owners are not experts. When they give me XYZ criteria, I know before they do when it won't work. My frustration (and the frustration of others within this company) is that the owners make themselves oblivious to problems, as described in the example I just gave. " This is what they need to understand for the benefit of their business. -
Tips for Dealing with Unrealistic/Oblivious Boss(es)
Hollyj replied to Jibralta's topic in Career, Money and Education
Have you had the opportunity to discuss this with them? Could you? Do you think you may need to look elsewhere? -
Sade-No Ordinary Love
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A Safe Place to Talk Freely to the Deceased
Hollyj replied to IAmFCA's topic in Grief Loss and Bereavement
Larry, dad, and, Holly, I miss you. ❤️❤️❤️ -
A Christmas Carol (1938). One of my faves.
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Wishing a Merry Christmas to all! 🎄🎅
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I second the comment regarding 2020!
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What is the weather right now in your city/town/village, Part 2
Hollyj replied to Seraphim 's topic in Off Topic's Topics
I am not a rain person. Hate it! -
What is the weather right now in your city/town/village, Part 2
Hollyj replied to Seraphim 's topic in Off Topic's Topics
Where is the 18 inches?! I just got in from shoveling and am a bit disappointed at the amount of snowfall (6.5 in). -
What is the weather right now in your city/town/village, Part 2
Hollyj replied to Seraphim 's topic in Off Topic's Topics
Whoop, whoop! The storm is here!!!! 😃⛄❄️ -
What is the weather right now in your city/town/village, Part 2
Hollyj replied to Seraphim 's topic in Off Topic's Topics
I love the snow. It has been pretty sparse the past few years. -
What is the weather right now in your city/town/village, Part 2
Hollyj replied to Seraphim 's topic in Off Topic's Topics
Expecting a major snow storm this week. Yay!!!!! 😀❄️⛄ -
How old are you? Are they still together?
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Boyfriend just had a bit of a wobble...
Hollyj replied to marshmallow107's topic in Relationship Advice
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Great for you!!!!!
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Try it with almond butter. I am so sick of all the meat! I want bread and cheese. I'm not giving up the alcohol.
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I hear you. I started the Paleo Diet. I really miss grains!!!!!!
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Frightening.
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MHowe. I was backing up what you said. I failed to copy in her post. I was responding to Liefde.
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"Ever heard of plan B or the morning after pill!" Haven't you heard of birth control?? UGH
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What I have learned about Commitment phobics
Hollyj replied to IWOKEUP's topic in Relationship Advice
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What I have learned about Commitment phobics
Hollyj replied to IWOKEUP's topic in Relationship Advice
No, not all. We were very financially secure and really didn't have any worries. I never heard any arguments, it was pretty Beaver Cleaver. My brother has been very successful in his personal life and has never had this issue. So, I don't know how to explain it, b/c like I said earlier I wanted to have someone special in my life. All in all, it looks to me like phobic behavior, most especially with the reasoning you provided.- 60 replies
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Hollyj replied to IWOKEUP's topic in Relationship Advice
My parents have an amazing marriage. I can truly say they are best friends and have a great deal of love and respect for one another, I could only wish to find what they share. Not only do they enjoy their time with one another but also have outside interests which keeps the relationship healthy. I believe this is the best combination.- 60 replies
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What I have learned about Commitment phobics
Hollyj replied to IWOKEUP's topic in Relationship Advice
It doesn't explain why I was fearful of letting someone into my heart for so many years. I always chose relationships that would not result in anything long-term, so when things got close I found fault with my partner and ended the relationship. In my eyes this is not normal or fulfilling considering my parents have been married almost 60 years. I've always wanted the romance and the fairytale but was afraid to let it happen. I guess we can agree to disagree on this issue.- 60 replies
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Hollyj replied to IWOKEUP's topic in Relationship Advice
Actually, at the time I knew there was a problem and couldn't understand why I put up those walls, I wanted to be in a loving, fulfilling and committed relationship. I wasn't happy with the way things were and decided to make the change.- 60 replies
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