remainstrong

Day 19. Cured.... i think so, who knows. No Desire, want or need to get in contact with Ex, the longer the time goes the more my what i thought was undying love now transpires to I must have just been brain washing myself as i can see what everyone else could see months ago clear as day.. What also is becoming aparant is i have a massive miss trust of females all because of the games she played with me. I hope over time this fades. I am still seeing a girl i met 10 days or so ago and thats gouing really well.

Samantha, You must stop all this hunny she is hurting you because u let her , you are hurting yourself.... NC 100 percent or u will be in bits for months to come ... been there done it, after over 2 weeks of NC im getting back to myself the fun guy i used to be.. you will do thje same.. I met a gorgeous girl last week and im not even chasing or care about her too much as at this moment in time its all about me and making me who i want to be,,, do that and others will flock to u.

13 days of NC, and I have to say i am finally living up to my name "remainstronG" in fact may even have to chage name to Herculese. People new to reading Enotalone and the no contact challenge read on........... I was a crying Mess, Desperate for my ex begged pleaded willing to accept anything to just get nearer. when we met i was the most confident self assured person i knew nothing pghased me, my desperation changed my charecter behond recognision. 13 days on my vision of the person i claimed to love is fading i now see it and her for what it is.. what all my family and friends had been pointing out for months and i was blinded by keep contacting. Im worth more NC has made me realise that go on try it!!!! its hardest thing u will ever do but life aint easy and sometimes we do hard things for better gain, NC is defenetly worth it!!!!!!!!!!

Hey Samantha I looked at my Ex's Faceparty facebook etc when we first split 5 mths ago... it said loads of similar things guess what it was all a front and a rebound ... dont take it to heart but dont look again either all u will do is upset yourself NC means not looking at those sites either... PS hello fellow brummy, im from hall green.

samatha, Do no contact it will be hard very hard, but its the only wway u can heal.

9th day of no contact. OMG what a diffence i feel in myself already, no more questioning things, no more how can I or what can i do's to get her back and win her over are going through my mind. after just 9 days I started the NC challenge as a way to try to win my ex back as i am sure most of us do, but even in this short ammount of time that feeling is fading rapidly, im seeing things clearer and im feeling that i dont want her back. How odd i mean really odd... 9 days ago i was desperate for her. Anyone readiing this and wondering if NC is a good option trust me DO IT!!!! I now sleep at night, I see things as they were not just how i wanted to see them. When i started i thought ill try last till Valentines day and send her a card..... But now dates of getting or reasons to get in contact are fading , im seeing how mean she was too me how un appreciative and i realise things werent all my fault. SHE WONT BE GETTING A CARD OR A TEXT ON VALENTINES DAY OR AT LEAST NOT FROM ME. Dont inflate their Egos by contacting them use the NC to raise yourself. Thankyou everyone on this Forum!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Ok here i am, having tried all the ridiculous but common errors in winning ex back. I am ready to get myself back This is my 5th day of NC