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holden

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  1. To everyone hurting, Getting back together really does happen! Read my past posts and you will get an insight into my story and breakup. I was lost like many of you are now, experiencing a pain unlike anything I had felt before. I couldn't sleep, eat, or do anything - it was a living hell. But with time and from advice from people on here and from books I read - I discovered how to find happiness again. You have to first get yourself back before you will ever have a chance at getting that one you lost back. You have to truly move on and concentrate on yourself (it may sound selfish) but its important to focus on you! I highly recommend that you join a gym - use it to build the better you and let off steam. No contact is the only way - in order for you to heal, move on and improve yourself. No contact is not a forever and does not mean the end... I don't have the time to explain my whole story on here right now but felt that I should come back and share with you - as I owe alot to this site for helping me in my dark days. Yes the days back then were long and the nights longer and yes I never felt that emptiness in my gut would ever go away...and yes I was sick of hearing that time heals all wounds. But it truly does - My ex and I did indeed get back together and we are happier now then we ever were - we have been back together for over 6 months now and we are talking about kids and marriage. We were apart for about 3.5 years - but I didn't sit waiting - instead I finally got my life back - I got a new job (better one with more money) , bought a house, dated and had other relationships, joined a gym and got into awesome shape, tried new things (food, travel, etc...) I went against my little voice and tried things that scared me.... I wish you all well in finding your love again - whether it be with your ex or someone new and I thank everyone at ENA for helping me when I needed you : )
  2. Take it as a learning lesson...don't beat yourself up over it....dude, get some sleep, take a sleepin pill if you have too...do you have to be home when she comes there tomorrow? can you leave her stuff at the doorstep? if not have it all ready at the door for her...and be prepared to put on a great act tom. morning if you have to face her...you gotta be confident and positive boy! remember, its her loss!!!
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