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I cannot and I stress cannot, stand other guys who treat women differently based on how they look. My biggest pet peeve in the world (in addition to old people who cant drive haha) Ok so I work in a customer service business. Situation A) Girl walks in, who is very attractive, gets what ever she wants for free. All the guys in the store walk by the counter acting like they actually have a reason to be walking by, just to stare at her. Situation B) A girl not as attractive, maybe over-weight, whatever it may be, walks in. My fellow employees first off don't even greet her nicely, make her pay for everything, don't go out of their way to help her at all. Pretty much be total * * * *heads. What I don't understand is how I have worked 3 jobs, and every other male co-worker I encounter is like this. I hate it so much that I never make any new friends, cause if anyone acts like that I can't stand being around them. I treat everyone the same, no matter race, appearance, etc. The fact that these people are so shallow and ignorant is annoying. Consequently, I do not have many, if any friends. They ask me to go out drinking sometimes, which I do just to get out. I go out in hopes of maybe meeting some women, but cannot stand being around my employees. It must be New Jersey, cause every job I work at I can’t stand my fellow employees. Ok I’m done lol

I'm 6'1 and around 165. I don't gain any weight ( i have a high metabolism) but I play a lot of Tennis. I really don't know if people look at me and think eww he's to skinny or not, never really cared. Different strokes for different folks, or something to that nature haha

ok I went back and re-read his post haha What I really think he means is, when someone comes to his drive thru, that is very attractive, he doesn't gawk at them, you know, do stuff that most men do in front of really attractive women. I'm sure he is nice to them like everyone else, just doesn't give them the kind of attention that moka was describing errr i feel im gona lose this argument when he gets back on we'll see what he meant heh

Well like moka said, knowing that they are treating you differently because of how you look must be annoying. I'm not saying I don't see both sides of it. You got to be able to weed through the a-holes who discriminate because of how you look, and the guys who actually sincerely like you for who you are. Bottom line is if you are going to treat an attractive person very well, you better treat everyone else like that, or you have absolutely no moral values.

Well if that is the case, then that's wrong too. Just as bad as the guys who treat people who are not as attractive differently. Bleh But I really think he meant no harm from it haha

I know what he typed, but I think he meant that. But I may be wrong, wouldn't be the first time.

I don't think he is saying that teddy. At least what I think he is saying, is that he treats everyone the same, and doesn't treat people who are more attractive differently.

Funny you mention that B-rock. I'm the same way it's actually one of my biggest (if not my biggest) pet peeve of all time. I'm a man, and I HATE when the other guys in my store, let attractive women get free stuff, or get extra stuff, or go out of their way to do something extra for them, just because they are attractive. Or they find a reason to come walk by my customer, and pretend they need something just so they can be in front of them, or look at them haha. But, when someone comes into the store that is not as attractive, they won't do all those things they in fact don’t do any and are sometimes even rude to them. I sometimes wonder if the woman knows that’s why they are getting extra care or if they are just clueless. I just don't like people getting treated differently based on looks. I hope they all think like you moka

I find a woman attractive if they are quiet, smart, and have a lot of self-confidence, a woman who doesn’t mind if they are not the center of attention Someone who would rather do something fun together (watch a movie at home or go rollerblading or something) rather than go hang out at a bar and get drunk, that kind of stuff bores me Someone who likes to try sports even if they stink at them (tennis!) Someone who loves music, and loves to go to concerts I love computers so someone who doesn’t mind if I’m kind of a gaming nerd In general a woman who is passionate about something (a sport, music, anything)