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cara23

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  1. Timothybb I know so well how you feel right now as I too have been left by my partner of three years with whom I wanted to spend my life with. Although everything seems so bleak now and coming to terms with the fact your life will take a different path to the one you imagined is so so hard, you have to have faith and believe that there is a reason you are no longer with this person. My partner was my first love and boy did I love him with everything - but maybe I only thought that was love, I haven't experienced it with anyone else and I believe that when you do find someone you really connect with and are in love with, you will look back and realise your relationship with this person was nowhere near as special as the 'one' and you'll be glad you are no longer with that person. It's hard to take this advice and realise there might be a brighter happier day out there. I am still struggling with it myself, but I don't want in a years time to still be miserable over some bastard who didn't treat me very well anyway. You have to pick up the self esteem, realise you are a great person and surround yourself with positive, helpful, sympathetic people. People keep telling me time will heal the wound. I think you need some kind of finalisation if you already haven't done it, I sent a goodbye letter and included all the special things that we will no longer share together and sent the rest of his personal affects. I miss him so much, but I am thinking it is the relationship I miss, the company and the security. Being single is so scary but hey, if we don't do it and start looking positively, Mr Right might just pass us by. Fate has a plan and it sounds like it is going to plan - even though it is beyond our understanding and comprehension. Hang in there mate, things have to get better. Be kind to yourself. Cara23
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