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  1. Thanks everyone for replying. Wtm, I wish I have future with him, but not like this, back and forth. It will drive me insane. Shoe, I am leaning toward writing out my expectations and send them to him. It seems like he is a better reader than a listener. I have nothing to lose I guess. Agatha, I know what you mean. It is just so frustrating not knowing if they are playing games or are really sincere.
  2. Hi, need advice again. I feel like a ping pong ball bouncing in every direction. Last Sunday I finally got the balls to tell my Ex not to contact me ever again after his half-hearted attempt at getting back together. He began to act like he was too busy to call me back or to see me these past few weeks. Well nothing for a week after the e-mail, till today. I got an e-mail saying his feeling was hurt and he misses me. Also he understands how I feel and he didn't have a chance to explain. (not sure explain about what) I am not sure what to do now. I don't want to be a puppet any more but there is still a tiny ray of hope. I want to e-mail him (some time in the future) of what I need in a relationship and see if he can meet those needs. If not we will go our separate ways. Others are telling me I am wasting my time. This guy is hopeless and he just wants me to be around but he doesn't want to be around me. Am I wasting my time?
  3. Sword, excellent message. I passed the one year mark few months ago. Now looking back, I can't believe how much saddness I suffered from the breakup. It was touch and go the first 6 months, but I told myself, don't put your life on hold for someone who doesn't deserve it. I then began to see I was gaining ground. the Ex and our relationship had become a semi-distant memory for me,now. I still think about him at times, but with a weird emotional detachment. Three things I had not believed a year ago now all make sense: 1. Time heals. 2. No contact. 3. If they don't want to be with you, you need to let them go. Good luck on your journey.
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