Dude, I wish I could answer your question... but women ARE really a different species that men won't be able to understand.
My so-called best friend of 7 years(trusted her nearly as much as my own mother), girlfriend of last 3 1/2 years(now ex) turns out to have been cheating on me during long distance relationship for years. I only found out AFTER she broke up with me through the guy she has been cheating on me with. He contacted me because of a guilty conscious... but said he loves/loved her still (ironically, both and I were "dumped" nearly in the same time). Probably was cheating on me with someone else as well... as she's with a new guy right off the bat when she broke up with me!
Eventhough this whole break up took place in May... I've been slowly recovering. NC is really a help. Recommend others to follow it thoroughly. If you have lady friends.... contact them and talk with them. I luckily have older lady friends who can relate to my problems and have helped me a lot. This forum will help you as well...by simply getting your grief out in the open.
Take care of yourself... we know the feeling
