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  1. Bostoneric...this same thing sort of happened to me. I was going through all kinds of strange emotions...like was I really that bad that I made a straight girl go to the other side??? But it's not worth thinking about. I know it must be eating you alive right now just thinking about it, but try not to let it bother you and PLEASE don't think it has anything to do with you. Maybe the breakup did, but as far as her "crossing over" that's her choice and you had nothing to do with it. I know it's gotta hurt, but I'm glad you've still left the window of opportunity open for reconciliation. Some guys would say you're crazy for even considering to take her back if she wanted to, but you obviously love her as much as I loved my ex, and I took her back after this same thing happened. But you're right...she needs to show her love for you, not just tell you. Good luck to you.
  2. Yo, I gave you the advice to go after her sister to make your ex jealous! The truth of the matter is, if you really want to get over your ex, you need to stop contacting ANYONE connected to your ex. You can't stop the memories you'll feel, but you can stop the daily things you do to remind yourself of her...like myspace, fb, or talking to people who remind you of her. Do your best in 2008 to let her go. Try to make it year free of your ex. If she comes back (and you want her back) make sure it takes you by surprise. Try not to expect anything.
  3. I've been on No Contact since November 12. I think I'm doing well. However, she did break it the first week of december to tell me she missed me so much! I told her to leave me alone but then later she called bawling her eyes out. So, stupid of me I know, I took the bait. Then around christmas, we talk again (first time since she calls up crying) and basically denies that conversation ever happened. I told her I'm tired of her games. And since I haven't even had a serious talk with her since October, I told her I didn't even know her anymore...basically, small loss. She didn't take kindly to that and we got into another fight, but I think she'll finally leave me alone this time. As far as I'm concerned, NC is still in effect and that little "burp" we had was just to assure her that I'm serious about it. I will not be texting her tonight. Starting tomorrow, 2008, if I never see her again it will be too soon.
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