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  1. dtman85
    Since I found this site..it has help me out in a lot of way and i would like to shout out a special thanks to superdave with his article, it really inspire me to do this no contact. Offically gf and i been broken up for 2 month now and i went into no contact april 13, she had contact me twice since then. she has a new man but this no contact experience had made me realize things out... I am glad that i found this site without it i would have been still trying to chase something that's not there no more. I have completely move on and gettin over her probably 90% there. Only think about her still probably 5 min a day now not every hour. For everyone else out there trying to get through this... I Say hang in there, it tough at first but all of you could pull it off. Take it one day at the time and LOVE YOUR SELF, Cause you cant make the other person love you.>>>
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    i been doing NC For one whole month and she have came in contact with me twice...once visiting me at work and calling me in the morning...It seem like it was a tease why she did it...I saw her new man yestarday at the gym well he was leaving..He kept starin at me, i didn't know who it was until i realize his car..it made me really angry, it seem like those excuses to leave..Was jus plain excuses to leave me and make me hold on to hope after the break up... I do miss her a lot but i am doing good with this no contact and the more i am going through each day without her ...the more i wont return to her, if she ever want me back...
  3. dtman85
    I am doing good with NC...and i encourage you guys to keep doing what you do...is better for you, it was hard for me to do it.. But it the best thing for myself not for her...since the break up i have improve my self by going to the gym six days a week and stayin no contact with her almost a month now...and she have contacted me twice..latest one this morning...But remember it not a sign that they want to get back, when they contact you...Words are words...ACTION SPEAK... So i am just living my life right now and waiting to see the action...but i am moving on also...so i am not really waitin for her anymore.
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    well my nc was broken again, she called me this morning...well i was still sleeping.. I was thinkin about picking up but then i just did..we jus had a normal conversation don't know why she call me so early..we probably talk about 30 mins and she mention what she have been doing of late.. i responded by not caring what she did. She also mention, that she was on msn yestarday and didnt see me on. Ask if i deleted her off msn or i didn't respond to her question and she was saying i was looking for your all over msn but you weren't on and your always on. I was like why are you lookin for me...she's like does it matter.. I don't know why she's contacting me...After i am doing NC...Even thou i miss her but she's just making it hard on me...
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    yea, i would wait for her to msg me on msn..when i see her on..i would just pop in and wait..sometime she msg and sometime she doesn't....It made me happy when she does..it bring me down when she doesn't....So i realize the best idea was to block and delete her...so i don't have to wait around for her or see her msn name...it help you heal...i haven't added her back on cuz i am still healing it been almost one month...
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    Today is may 8th, I went in No Contacts since april 13....and she came to visit me on May 3rd at work...I feel like i am back to square one again. Since the day she visited my mind been thinkin about her so much, every night i have dream of her...I jus really want her out of my mind....even thou i love her so much and want to talk to her but i know i can't.... No contact is the only way to know, if we were meant to be and for my self... Either way I am fine with it, even thou i miss her...
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    Just got back from work.... My ex came in to visit me tonight; I was in disbelief and stun,all those emotions that I kept buried inside and let go for weeks now, one moment bought it all back, I was so nervous and felt so weird. On my mind at the time I was like why’s she here, why did she come and stop by. Me: woah, I am surprise that you’re here but it nice seeing you Her: I wanted to stop by to say hi and I would have come more often but I never see you work. So tonight I saw your car and just wanted to stop in. Me: I thought you wanted me out of your life and done with. Her: You know I only said it because I was mad at you for listening to your friend bull****. We talk probably for 15 min and she left. We broke up March 23 and we haven’t seen each other since April 13 because she told me to stay out of her life and never come in contact with her anymore. So I been trying to respect her wish and avoid her. I don’t know if I made the right move tonight, I think I did show her that I still care for her and think about her. I was acting really jumpy…
  8. dtman85
    I been doing NC...and i haven't seen my ex since april 13th, when she walked out my house and we both stare at each other well she walk away....she has seen me around, but i haven't seen her...so it been a long time at least seen her.....But it for the best, i love her with all my heart and miss her a lot but i guess she already move on with someon else and i am doing good without her.
  9. dtman85
    it been another week of NC..i haven't see her or talk to her....try my best to avoid her by going very different route, so i wouldn't run into her....i am better now happy without her but still miss her....
  10. dtman85
    I made a mistake today...it been a week with no contact with the ex...but i heard from one of my friends that she's trying to sale my gift i bought her...a $600 dollar DVD Deck, which i was really heart broken. I called her and ask for it back, if she's going disrespect me like that...we argue the whole night over text msging and phone calls. "One of her msg was just leave me alone for good and this time don't break your promise and stop being a stalker i know it"...i don't know where she get that idea from because her work is a block away from my house and i drive by there everyday to go places and i guess she always see my car and assuming i am stalkering her......well i told her i only bugged her was because the thought of her selling it, would hurt me..so she decided to keep it to her self now....So i promise her on my life that she'll never hear from me again and never see me again.....her response was i don't want to hear that * * * *...i jus don't want you to call me over stupid * * * * or call me ever but i'll see you around... My friends talked to her and said just give the * * * * back, if u want to be done with him because this the only thing that keep him in ur life still is that deck, he think you might sell..she's like no she's keeping it... i feel like a moron..... Honestly, this week i felt happi without her for once...but all this emotion crash back down on me... I also say things, i shouldn't said to her...Like fake a bitc* a * * * * and etc... superdave give me ur thought or anyone else please
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    hey superdave... i been reading many of your post of late.... I want to thank you, i wish i found your post sooner...you're healing my heart faster by the advice you give up... I am really please that you're so wise about relationship... thank you so much....
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    damn it....i went to subway today and drove back home cross path with my ex driving the other direction it killed me seeing a guy on the passenger side seat.... we both drive the same kinda car... mine is 04 celica suit up and her 01 celica bright yellow...
  13. dtman85
    please give me some thought about my posts...i really need it...
  14. dtman85
    how much do i hate dreaming about her...it make me so happi when i do but when i wake up...reality just set back in, I go online this morning and see her on but she left a bit after i was on....pretty hurt to see that....day 6
  15. dtman85
    BeachChick thank you..i am waitin it out as time it past it seem a lil harder and harder....esicapplly last night having a dream of her, which made me sad this morning....
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