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Rockchick26

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  1. I can't find anywhere how to delete your profile. Can someone tell me how to do it? Thank you.
  2. I still don't see a sense of superiority. I am just describing 2 people, 2 situations. And yes I said I did find a solution regarding work, I am going to do email marketing and a website. And I will make a living at it, it just takes more than a few months. No I don't take as many pictures but I would still give them all to people even if I took 300 like she does. It isn't hard to upload pictures to FB and tag people in it, thats what people do. Well everyone but her.
  3. Yes I know what she said. But she could not remember who it was who said it (apparently)...we have mostly the same friends so if someone really did say it, they don't really know me that well. I just think she said it to make me think she's right about me being negative, like more than just her thinks that.
  4. I have only talked about this with one other friend, it's a guy that has already told me his opinion of her before so I knew he wouldn't tell her, plus guys are just better friends anyway. He told me when he first met her he could tell she was needy, always needing to be talking to someone, always needing attention and adoration from people. I guess she told him she was bipolar but not to tell anyone, (he has some mental issues too so she figured he would understand). I guess I kinda forgot about that until now. Explains a lot. Another time she snapped at both of us for being worried about
  5. I guess I just assume people would do things for me that I do for them. Every time I take a picture with someone, I send it to them, or post it (asking first) tagging them in it. As i keep saying, the difference is I am trying to find a solution. I don't still have the same problems after a decade. My friend has been living the same exact life for around 10 years now, still having the same problems. Also another difference is she HAS solutions that she comes up with, but just doesn't do them. I had to dig deep to find my solution because it isn't something most people suggest, they don
  6. This is how she describes herself. I am not making anything up or exaggerating. I am using the same words and phrases she uses to describe her life to me. Yes, I do. I listen to advice, I just defend myself when I'm being judged. I give more detailed answers to clarify things that people aren't understanding correctly. I come to this forum for purpose that it was intended for, to vent, to get advice, to not feel alone. I read other people's posts in here and see no difference between theirs and mine. I looked just now and people are describing their situations saying "bad" things about
  7. Your friend didnt ask for advice though, my friend does. She literally asks "Should I..." and "what should i do about..." etc. ending in question marks, so they are legit questions asking for advice. I think it's kinda rude to start thinking about something else while she is talking, I mean yeah she doesn't let me talk much anyway but still, I dont want to not actually listen. And my answers are usually along the lines of "that sucks" or "oh how horrible", it's only when she asks for what to do do I tell her more detailed answers.
  8. So I take it none of you ever make posts of your own then? I hate fighting, if I enjoyed this, I wouldn't be bothered by me and my friend fighting! Your comment makes no sense. I don't come in here every few months for the sole purpose of doing anything, I just wanted to vent and get suggestions on the situation which is what forums are for. Like I ask every time and nobody seems to answer me, why am I being judged for using a forum with it's intended purpose!? It shouldn't even be called eNotalone, I always feel more alone after posting in here with everyone judging me and not listening to
  9. I DO listen, 99% of the time when me and her are talking it is her talking and me listening. During our phone conversations it literally is about 99% her talking and me listening. This is why I have to correct people in my responses because obviously you couldn't have known that unless I told you so your advice of "being supportive and listening" is something I already do. And I only tell her what I would do in her situation because she ASKS me. AGAIN, she ASKS me to tell her what to do. I don't want to be like her mother, she's 37 she shouldn't have to ask for other people to make decisions f
  10. I am not dismissing advice, if you'll notice, I am agreeing when I actually get advice (stop giving her advice, talk to her less, etc.) i think you are referring to just my responses in general. 99% of the time I am just giving more information that is clearly needed. I think when it comes to me and my friend, I know more details about the situation than anyone else could, which is why I feel the need to fill in the gaps. I see a lot of misunderstandings happening on this forum (in all my posts), in my opinion I think people just read too fast and miss some sentences where I clearly explain so
  11. I admitted that it makes me a little angry to think about this stuff while I am writing it, and yes my post is a complaint because this is really bothering me. I thought we were good friends and I hate fighting with people so this feels bad to me and I don't like it. And again I don't know why I get accused of this when this is a forum where people post about problems in their life! Why am I always singled out for it when that's what forums are for? As for the comments about her life, they are things SHE says. I am just repeating them to give you guys an understanding of what she says is wr
  12. I can see how it would seem that way without more information about both of us. But I know me and her better than anyone in here could, and I see the differences. If we didnt have so many differences, we wouldn't be clashing so much.
  13. I will never understand how listening to someone and giving them advice when they ask for it is being a lousy friend. She has told me she prefers to talk to people who agree with her, she tells me all about it when she finds new people to talk to who tell her "your ex will come back to you, i just know it!" they are feeding her BS. As for her life being miserable, those are her words, one night at 4 am she complained to me for 2 hours about how she is stuck in her life and there is no way to fix any of her problems. Literally every suggestion I said she had a reason why it wouldn't wor
  14. I don't know why people keep thinking the advice is unsolicited...she is ASKING me for it, every time we talk, it's a new thing she needs advice about. Obviously I care about her which is why it's hard to just sit back and not give advice, but trust me I don't want to be thrust into these conversations with her where she basically asks me the same question for 2 hours on what to do about the problem of the day, or the month.
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