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schizo replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Tomorrow is your birthday... I've been dreading it for weeks. It makes me think about you, and that hurts a lot. Why did you have to **** everything up so much?!?!?! Why couldn't we have ended up like I was sure we were supposed to? How did things go so very wrong? When will ever be able to think about you without holding back tears? *siiiiiigh* I've been trying, I swear...but I just haven't been able to find anyone who makes me feel the way you did. I mis US so much. -
Yes...Lying is usually considered wrong. It's alright if s lonely 55 or 155 year old guy wants to cyber, but he should at least be honest. Personally, I thought ayekantspeylgud's comment was really funny. lol And I agree that cyber sex with a mic is just like phone sex, but safer.
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Well not any time soon. I'm just giving an example of how this could could cause problems in the future, if there's going to be a future.
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Here's my first bit of advice...DO NOT keep taking Lexapro! I've been taking it for 3 years now, and I'm horribly addicted. Not just emotionally, but physically. I get VERY VERY sick when I don't take them. Headaches, vomiting, aches...to the point that I can't even leave the house. It really does help with calming the stress down, but it's not worth it in the future. What I would suggest is to get yourself some kind of therapist that you can talk to, who will help you figure out ways to cope with your stress and anxiety without medication. Good luck with everything! Depression and anxiety are NOT fun... If you have any other questions about Lexapro, feel free to PM me. I know all too much about those little pills...](*,)
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I'm not sure why you keep getting treated that way, but I have an optomistic thought for you... Since you obviously know how bad relationships can be, when you finally find that guy that's going to treat you right, you'll feel extra super happy to be finally getting the love you deserve! Just thought of something...maybe you're TOO nice, and these guys are taking advantage of that? Maybe you just need to stand up for yourself. Let them know you're not going to take any crap!
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Is there really and SI awareness day? Hopefully next year I'll be able to wear a ribbon Wish me luck...
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Right now it just frustrates me. But I'm afraid that it may make our relationship harder later. Like what if we have kids? I'll let them make their own decisions, but we've agreed that I can raise our kids to be vegetarians. And what happens when I tell them why it's good to be a vegetarian, and they ask me why daddy eats meat? All this advice has helped me figure this out so much though. I'm going to have a good long talk with my man about how I'm feeling, and hopefully we can reach a happy medium.
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I'm just curious...why are you making her sleep habits your responsibility? Did she ask for your help, or are you just doing it?
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Is it wrong to keep acting like a couple? Well that depends...are you planning on getting back together any time soon? If you're still acting like you're together, especially saying "I love you" still, why don't you just get back into the relationship? If not...someone is going to find someone else, and it will be "alright" because you're both technically single, and then someone is going to get hurt. Really bad. So in my opinion, you both need to make up your minds on whether you want to be in a real relationship or not, and stick with that. Believe me, it will make things a whole lot easier in the end!
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I agree. I have friends who are guys who would want to have sexual relations with another male, but would rather be involved with females romantically, and vice versa. You don't HAVE to be categorized. Just let yourself be free and love who your heart wants to love!
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caro33-Yes, I would like to know the title and author of that book. Thanks If anyone out there is having the same issues I am with someone close to you that smokes...I just figured out something that's helped me feel SO much better! I think one of the reasons it's been so hard for me to deal with my boyfriend not being able to quit is because I didn't understand. I've never smoked. Sometimes, when he would go back to smoking, I would feel as if it was some how partially my fault, or that he didn't care about my feelings. But I've found some web sites that have given me some great info on what it's like to quit smoking...and WOW...I suddenly feel so much better. And I actually have hope that he really will be able to quit someday, if that's what he wants.
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I'll be taking my GED soon, and was looking for some pre-testing advice. Any good sites you know of or knowledge from experiance would be helpful. My questions are... What are some good ways to practice for the test? ((I don't have time to take any pre-testing classes, so that's out of the question)) Know of any "brain foods"? ((That's excluding fish or any kind of meat. I'm a veg. Yae )) Any other tips?? THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!
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That was Click! lol Anywho...I think asking is "cute" but not "sexy". I've only had one guy ask me ((It was his first kiss so he was nervous I guess lol)) He just plain out asked, "Can I kiss you?" How romantic I definantly agree that the asking by means of body language is better. It gives you that excited nervous feeling...like... "Are we going to kiss now? "
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BOOBS, definantly. lol Girls like it when you pay lots of attention to that area, because it makes them feel good about their body. Well...I guess I shouldn't say that every girl is that way...but I am. Could be because I was stuck at a A cup FOREVER and I was really insecure about it. I also love to be kissed and softly sucked on my inner thighs and hips...all that area around you-know-where, but not directly on that area. It teases and excites me. As for a not so sexual area...it makes me feel good when my BF and I are together and he randomly kisses me on the forehead.
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Not everyone gets pregnant after a guy blows his whole load in her either. Anyone who hasn't gotten pregnant from pulling out is just lucky. My best friend got pregnant because she didn't think she would get pregnant if the guy pulled out. DON'T RISK IT