Byron1979

I don't know. Some of those bookworms in cofee shops are kinda cute. But I don't know. I would like to know of healthier places to meet women myself, because I have been to clubs and I don't like the environment much.

Not always something I'd recommend. At least not if you don't have any flirtation with the girl to begin with.

Yesterday, a woman that I had seen and talked to some in the past but hadn't seen for 3 months said hi to me really quick then said she's gotta go and gave me a quick kiss on the cheek.

Every so often women will walk by me and toussle my hair as they walk by. I have some female coworkers that will poke me in the stomach lightly. One time I was hugging a girl for a long time and I put my hand on her head and ran it down in one stroke very lightly and she just laughed at that a little.

That is kind of a grey area still. What if you just walk by them from time to time?

What do women usually do when they are interested in a guy. Just thought I would ask.

Yeah I'm new here. But that is not cool. Hopefully you will find someone better. Those other two people can go jump in a creek.

Today was a weird day. I was going to use an office to do some work, she needed to use it to interview a client, because the client was on crutches. It's a human services office. I am sitting down to get situated and I see her and we just look at each other. I smile very shyly and she seems to return it and I let her take the office, partly to be a gentleman to her and partly because the client was on crutches. She said she was sorry and giggled and I said that it was okay. After that, we just went back to our more guarded interactions. Barely looking at each other if at all. I smiled at her slightly one time and she returned it and we walked on in separate directions.

She seems shy, as am I. She seems very busy sometimes. I know that I put up my own barriers too. When they are down and we have interactions, they are mostly positive and the more we have, the more I feel that I like her. Though, my guard goes up and/or I feel hers go up.

You mean you do what she's doing when you like a guy?

There is this lady I like at work. I would like to gauge how she feels about me. This girl is really cute and she seems pretty bright. She has a good sense of humour and a very distinctive laugh. The exchanges vary. I don't know if one of us is setting the tone. Sometimes we will talk to each other and have friendly exchanges, and I will crack a joke and she will laugh, but other times we walk by each other and don't even look at each other. Sometimes, I see her smile at me and I smile back and vice-versa. Sometimes, we walk by each other and we are barely looking at each other but I would make a sidwise glance at her to see her looking at me for a second and then looking away. One time, I was getting a water out of the soda machine and I looked back and saw her, gave her a shy smile, which she returned, then I got out of there. Then there are the times we joke. When we were at a going-away party for another coworker she and I talked a little and she dared me to down a small glass of beer, which I did. We have joked about a movie we both like, "Office Space", and both have an interest in politics, which we haven't discussed with each other yet. She'll notice when I get a haircut. I just get so shy around her and I have always been shy around women. We have our moments, and then things shut down again and I don't know.