I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a month now, and when we have sex, it's good, I'm physically satisfied and everything, but something in me can't help but feel something missing. I've tried to convince myself that to "make love" with someone, it does not matter what position you're in, where you do it, or how fast or slow you do it, as long as it is with the person you love, and I do love this person, but somewhere in me there is also something that says that making love should be slow and face to face. I'd also like it if he told me he loves me more while doing it, but I feel dumb asking him to do that, and besides, shouldn't he already want to do that without me needing to tell him? He's already an extremely romantic, giving person, but it seems like when we have sex it feels more like a porno than a love-making session. Any help or suggestions would be appriciated.
