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  1. ONE MONTH???, he called on monday. He wanted to apologize, he has realized he love me and wants to be with me....Apologies, apologies, apologies. He said that when I told him to not call me again, I was dignified to his eyes I'm cautious
  2. I find it really gross when a boy just goes around and randomly sleeps with other girls. I find that he degrades himself in that matter and its such a huge turn off. I personally do not want a boy who randomly sleeps around for a long term relationship at all. I find it really disgusting that he doesnt treasure himself more than that. Back to the 18th century?
  3. I Really do not know, I divorced at 29, now I'm 44 and I had never problem dating having a little girl. (and she was always first for me, my true love, now 19 yo). So i really cannot tell. Maybe it is a matter of perception, should you feel having too many kids is going to prevent you for dating, maybe this will happen, but if you live this naturally I do not see a reason for not having another mate. Will you have problems dating with a person with 3 kids?
  4. Day 15th. Today I have been very picky. I have started to realize that he really DUMPED ME!!! GRRRRRR.... He is no changing his mind, so I can be proud and wear the crown of MISS UNIVERSE in my head while looking down to him, poor mortal (fantasies) ha ha. I started an argument with two of my colleagues at work. And my female colleague said. Hey, you are not this way, you are nice and caring, so forget about that a****le and be nice with us. They started then making laughs about me, my moods, and my failed romance, and I had to follow them, and their jokes, so I ended up having a very nice time at work. sigh.
  5. "pray for my ex and to let go".. so I did just that, I prayed he would go bald.... ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha........ Que bueno!!! gasp! I have to recover myself.... I do not pray but I will start immediately. kiama, it would be a good revenge, but you will miss it so there is no point. This is just another fantasy. Beware of fantasies.
  6. What works best for me is keeping a diary with your feellings. Anger Depression More Anger More Depression More revenge feelling fantasies of coming back More anger Why fantasies of coming back are just that Fantasies Silence A week without writting More anger Two weeks without writting What is this? Oh, a diary I wrote when X dumped me.... Amazing
  7. cooking - ENA is a good place for getting support
  8. He was angry at you for HIM being with a Girl? You become a lesbian in the last few minutes or he is NUTS¡¡ Do not understand
  9. The best thing of keeping a diary is when you read it again in six month and you laugh and you can delete it...... ;-)
  10. This is not my first break up, i had many. Most of the time I was the dumper, with sound reasons (so you almost are the dumpee) but now i'm the dumpee. What things do you do to feel better?. I have a few. A good shower. Keeping a diary Buy a new makeup Making up every morning Saying: i'm sad, to your friends (very once in a while) and get a good hug in return. Saying: I'm sad to your dog, and he/she liks your face and do a nice a tail wagging. (this is the best for me ). Forbid romantic music for 3 weeks
  11. Pearly relax, take care of yourself, and buy a big box of tampons, ha ha. Redecorate your bathroom with pads and tampons. It takes time. Slowly and step by step, soon the pain will disminish.
  12. 15 days of no contact. Today I'm particularly sad. But full of resolution.
  13. Buf pearlylove. Are you breathing .....? scary.....
  14. Kiama, I am sorry you have to go through all this. We all fantasize with a new situation that revereses everything that we are passing through, but it is just that - a Fantasy. He left you, he kiked you and in spite that now you are incapable of seing it, he has made you a great favour. Go and try to lose weight look hot and wonderful, but for another man. This one is not worth it honey.
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