cchella2006

I would say that you need walk away. I know i need to do the same thing. It is hard..we have been together 7 years and i know exactly what you are talking about. My boyfriend actually told me he treated me this way b/c i allowed him too. I would always take him back. It's a vicious cycle that doesn't end. I'm to the point where i am getting out and see if him knowing that i'm not coming back changes anything.

My boyfriend and I have been togethe for 7 years. I thought we would be married by now. It has gotten so bad in the past year...I don't know what happen. He is so disrespectful to me, lies to my face, screws me over and just don't understand why. He started hanging out with his boss alot and I believe alot of his actions come from him. His boss just had a baby with his girlfriend but has about a million different women on the side. His boss goes to the bar and drinks after work instead of going home to his girlfriend and baby. Ever since my boyfriedn has been hanging out with him it has been horrible. He had an engagement ring designed for me about 6 months ago...i thought we would be engaged by now but instead we aren't even speaking. Over the weekend he was disrespectful and wanted to do what he wanted so he want to a co workers party Sat nigh and never came home unitl 9 sun night. We don't live together but his mom called me b/c he had called her to let his dogs out saying that he had to work late sat night...when she saw that he hadn't returned sun she called me very upset. She had been calling him all day sun and no answer. I tried calling him with no answer either. Finally around 9 sun night she called his boss who told her he would find out where he was. He immediately called her back and said he was 30 min from where he lives. Kind of odd that he wouldn't answer the phone for us but would anser for him. He finally called me that night and just said that he had to go out of town for work and that was it. He would not explain why he wouldn't answer the phone. i hung up and haven't talked to him since. He hasn't called so it must be no big deal to him. I have my suspesions b/c i have found other women's phone numbers and knows he has talked to them. So i don't know what is going on. He says that i b*&^% and nag but it is only b/c of the stuff i have to deal with form him...like the screwing me over, lies and disrespectfullness. I just don't know what went worng and what should i do. I love this man so much but have been in so much pain over him. he says he cares but acts like he doesn't have a care in the world for me.

It is always problem after problem. We have been together for 7 years and you think after being together that long we wouldn't have these issues. You can see from previous post some of the stuff going on. On Friday we had planned to go to the movies and dinner. He got off work at 2 and i don't get off until 5 so i said meet at the movies at 5:15 b/c the movie started at 5:25. He called me at 2 and said he was dropping by his friends. I said ok but don't be late to the movies. I get off work and break my neck to get there by 5:15. He is nowhere to be found. I call no answer. He finally calls back and said he is running late. Apparently him and his friend went to a bar and drank alot and lost track of time. He is so disrespectful. So he finally shows up and WE are so LATE for the movie. We then go to dinner which was nice so i suggested we go to a local bar and hang out. He said no that he needed to get home b/c he had to be up at 5 in the morning for work plus he had drank alot that day and didn't want anymore. I say ok and am on my merry way home. I call him when i get home and he answers and is out at a bar with his friend. Well i got so mad b/c he just told me that he had to go home and didn't want to stay out but there he goes with his friend. He couldn't understand why I was mad and turned it all around on me saying that all i do is b*&^% and nag. He doesn't realize that i only do this when he lies stright to my face. People just don't make sense to me. Any advice

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. He bought a ring a couple of months ago but we are not engaged yet. The past 6 months have been horrible with him. He has been lying to me screwing me over, disrespecting me. I found out that he had been getting other women's phone numbers and calling them. We took some time apart and were back together at the end of January. My birthday was the first part of February...he gave me a card. No gift or anything. I always go all out spending $500 or more for his Birthday. I'm not all about the gifts but he rarely spends any money on me. This causes a lot of fights between us because I feel like he takes advantage of me. I don't care how much the gift costs I would just like a gift that says he took the time to do it. I always feel as if I foot the bill for most things. We both make good money he just never wants to spend his. For Valentine's day I got a card and a flower. I spent over $200 on him. I just feel like he takes the easy way out and doesn't relly care. He has 2 vehicles in which he is saleing one of them in which he just bought less than a year ago. He wants a hummer and one of my clients might have one for sale. So he wants me to see if I can get a good deal on it for him. He wants me to buy it and then he pay for it. I don't want to do that. If he wants it I feel like he can purchase it. He than asked if the payments were high if I could help him out. I am always help him out but he never helps me out. Plus with the way he treats me I just really want to call it quits. Any advice.