Sieze2k

thank you so damn much everybody, I'm amazed I got all these replies. I know I made a big deal about it, and after that reassurance, it's just up to me to put things straight in my head now, and you've helped a lot. I think i was just pressured from stories around me. I've heard of people getting into fights over trivial things, ESPECIALLY with women, and sometimes you regret not doing the same thing because it seems so normal. I feel a lot more calmer and in control now. I can't thank you enough!

Hello, I'm a bit unsure of myself with the lack of action i took the other day when I went to the pub with my girlfriend and my mates. To make it short, we ended up playing doubles at pool with these guys there, and one of them was very drunk and couldn't take losing at the game so starting getting aggressive in other ways (e.g getting aggressive). One thing he did was begin speaking to my girlfriend. She brushed off anything he said, it didn't bother me that he was talking to her. However, at one point this guy abruptly peck-kissed my girlfriends hand. I didn't do anything about it, only joked about it with her afterwards since I saw it as trivial. However it has been snagging on my mind that maybe I should've been aggressive to the guy about this, even though he didn't do anything else. One part of me thinks "ah its no big deal, he only pecked her on the hand and he was very drunk" but another part says I should've been violent about it. I'm unsure and want to know everybodys opinion of what they would do/would've advised me to do. It's really snagged onto my mind and wont go away. Thanks!