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tnttran

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  1. I was not born shy. I was probably the most daring kid in my school. Up until my late teenage years was when i became shy. I guess i just grew up differently to others. And also experiences, or lack of, also attributed to my shyness. Another factor is my body image. Causing me to always think about what others think.
  2. go out alot. to places you both enjoy. go out on dates with you other couple friends and have a great time! the more fun you have, the more you will be happy and enjoy your time with your partner, and forget about arguing. and you don't argue as much with a 3rd company = )
  3. if he;s trying to contact you after a row then he is a great friend! don't lose a friend over something silly, i know i have! you must think of his side, think eveerything on his side, and maybe you will not be jealous anymore. one thing you must not do is continue to act strange/ignore him. if its an internet relationship, it could cut out at any moment, regardless of how close you two are... i know for a fact!
  4. he's an educated adult, just him calmly. Don't pull the girly panic when you tell him, and don't make it confusing!
  5. go to different places with him, then you have variety of interesting convo's. and you never know where it may lead.
  6. income has no affect on me, on how much more i like a girls. i usually get to know their personality before how much they earn. looks of course is a factor. just my opinion, maybe different with other guys. = )
  7. yea, you planned a day and didin't turn up. She is probably a great girl, because she didin't get angry or chuck a hissy fit. just relax, and have fun with her = )
  8. Yeah, the best way is to asking a girl what another girl thinks, hehe. Well if she makes an effort to talk to you, then she definitely is interested in you in some way, doesn't matter which way. Your relationship is friendly at the moment, so you should make an effort to respond to her goodness for you! Show her you are nice person, and not only talk to her when she talk to you. can't go to next stage without knowing her better = ) don;t be afraid man, the woman are not scary! hehe.
  9. thank you guys so much for you advice, all of you! I also heard from my brother the gym no one notice you, and its better to bring a friend! as i'm just moving into university, i've yet to have friends but i will make some and go to a gym. thank you i will perk up some courage to go by myself first... ; ) buying my own weight is great idea! i have money, but as i;m asian we houses are very small and have no room at all! however i will buy some dumb bells, which will fit ; ) Hehe, i knew someone here would also play wow, 1/75 people in the world play WoW. you are 100% correct about WoW thought... hehe. i will be trying to improve my life now, and trying to help people here too! any tips on gianing weight plz tell me = )
  10. face, then body. i'm not into really big boobs, boobs should match the owners body.
  11. oh sorry, i meaning i quit WoW. wow got in the way of alot of things. I'm studing psychology in university now, to hopefully answer some questions and build ym confidence again...
  12. yea, i don't know if it was the chicken or the egg. but i became sad and withdrawn, i don't know why, i was suddenly scared about many things (the future, what people thinking about me, job, school, friends). And then i didint talk to people and lost many friends. I was VERY outgoing before, but now i;m completely opposite... I just started feeling bad when i was growing up, i don't know why, and i don't like to tell anyone. Maybe i was sad because i was skinny? or being sad made me skinny... i don't know. My life seems ok, can't complain, oculd be worst. but theres always something missing and i;'ve never been very happy. but my unhappiness lead me to this computer game "world of warcraft" it basically ate through my life. I didint eat i didint study. Fortunately my 1st years grades were high enough to make up for my failure 2nd year. I've recently quit, but still ifnd it hard not to tihnk about it. Yea i know about all nutrition side of bulking up, i've been getting enough protein intake, except my calorie count is still abit low. but each time i go near i gym im shaking!!
  13. when i was younger i was confident and outgoing and a normal weight, but recently i've gone through alot, and have become very skinny because i haven't been looking after myself... i'm 18 now And now i've lost all my confidence, i hardly talk to anyone anymore. Some of my friends are all big and tough and even though i'm older than them, they treat me like a kid... I don't having an eating disorder where i think i'm fat or anything, but i find it embarrassing to go out in public, unless i dress like a 14 year old... I recently tried to buff myself up, i did research and found all the imformation i need. Except i'm reluctant to go to the gym, its the 2nd most important thing to being a healthy weight, but i can;t bring myself to go. I keep having this image of people laughing at that 14 year old skinny kid trying to be a tough man... Everyone around me is bigger than me and i never see anyone skinny in australia... its intimidating, is this what its like to be skinny? (sorry for some english mistakes )
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