Hi, Eileen-
I just wanted you to know that I, too, know what it's like to feel trapped in the narcissist's web.
I have been in a tangled mess of a relationship for many years. Our relationship, especially since I've realized what he truly is, has been mostly a nightmare for me. I've struggled to get him to love me the way I need to be loved, only to end up feeling put down, let down, and that my needs are insignificant compared to his.
Many, many times I've asked myself why I've stayed. The only reasons I can find mostly involve my own codependent tendencies. I just can't seem to stop myself from wanting to "help" him and make myself feel needed. Only problem is, no matter how much I work my tail off for him, all I get are crumbs in return. His needs come first, and they always will. I know that I'm ready to end it, but there's a hard road ahead, and it ain't gonna be pretty.
Anyway, I wanted you to know that I support you, and I'm pulling for you.
