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  1. First of all, I am sorry for what you are going through. It must feel like no matter how hard you try to stay on the up and up with school and work, sometimes your body just stops you. It says, no not today. Most people see this as a fault, but it is an organic sickness. I think you should tell him what you have so at least he has some basis to start from to know where you are at. This must be a scary thing for you to contemplate, but maybe he will be empathetic. I say empathetic, because no one can understand what you are going through, because you are unique and no one lives in your body. Tell him your mind wants to go to work (everyday), and your mind wants to go to class (all the time), but sometimes your body just stops you. There is definitely a disconnect sometimes. I am hoping for you, and take the best care of yourself.
  2. hey there.. he just wanted to come by your desk to wish you happy b-day. i think it is so cute. I am engaged to a shy one, so I can tell you he probably was nervous (even though you showed interest) that you would reject him. Shy people are super sensitive in my experience. I agree with the other member, bump into him at the coke machine and try to talk to him. I love shy dudes
  3. I think many people care about shy people. That is a sweeping statement for sure. Shy people are great, just need to be coaxed out of their shells.
  4. Well they are patronizing, condescending, impolite and somewhat snobbish. Now if you saw and heard these characters you would say how do they think they can act this way. For instance, a long time ago we were all at dinner. I live in New Orleans so "krewes" which run the parades are an old tradition. Some have elaborate balls to celebrate as well. Well one of the guys needed a date so his friend brought him one from Jersey. All was well until they found out she was black. They were talking about how he could not go with her and all this s t uff. I am from a place where racial lines are not cut deep,so i was horrified and voiced it. they turn to me and are like "sweetie, you just don't understand." Yeah I don't understand, I thought this was the 2000's and not the 50's..lol. They exclude certain people out of certain activities, just talk down a lot to me, act as if I am crazy when I say certain stuff. I would actually think I was crazy maybe if the rest of the free world told me I wasn't and it was them. Basically just thinking they are holier than thou, and trust me, they aren't. I guess the problem is I am used to cool people with open mind who are fun. I feel like I am at the bottle of the barrel in a cheap wine bought at the quickie-mart.
  5. I am in love with my fiance, but I am not too thrilled about a few of his friends. I call them the bore core, but they are also boorish. They have made me feel badly on many occasions and I just do not want them in my life any longer. this is where the problem comes in, if i dont hang around them anymore I will miss out on a lot of the fun places they go. I don't dislike all his friends just two. BUT I REALLY DISLIKE THEM! One of his friends actually had a crush on me and people say he may harbor resentments I didn't like him. Non the less, i just want to deal with this, how can I hang with everyone else and not let them bother me. I have already told them off on several occasions. i feel like a mean person around them, but i really am not. Wasn't drama supposed to st op in high school??lol
  6. I have been very overweight for the last 6 years. I used to weigh a healthy 145 and now weigh 230 pounds.. YIKES! I am 5'5 and weigh as much or more than a linebacker (and I am a girl). My fantasy is to find some strict trainer who help me get gorgeous. Has anyone went from fat to fab and have a story to tell? Actually does anyone have any weight loss or gain stories to tell. I just want to feel good about myself and get healthy. But it is hard especially when chocolate calls my name. Bee
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