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Ammy

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  1. Hehe, I like your post (esp. point 3!!) But it seems like you're doing better than most of us single gals - I have not ONE good sort in sight hehe! As for your problems - 1. I think you should just strike up conversation quietly before class.. and on the odd occasion (not every day) happen to be sitting near him so that you do leave class together... It will help you get to know him! 2. Shyness sucks.. I have these sorts of issues all the time, if I am around a guy I find attractive I become mute... It's a matter of overcoming the shyness..bit by bit - positive self talk - easier said than done.. it takes time but I have managed it.. I'm sure you will - with time comes experience, just try and step outside ur comfort zone and participate in class even if you feel shy! Good luck - lots of excitement!! Let us know how you go! Ammy
  2. Hi there, I totally understand!! Firstly I get flashbacks.. right now I'm having one.. I was fine for months and then suddenly (admittedly I did see my old "crush") things are bk to square one.. One thing I realised though is every relapse gets a bit easier to deal with and lasts less time... As for meeting ppl.. who knows how it works? I do agree with darkpumpkin the world does work in mysterious ways, you meet ppl in the weirdest ways.. it is fate - or so we have to believe!! Good luck! I hope good things are just round the corner.. I'm sure they are! Let's keep hoping! Ammy
  3. I disagree.. All good things come to those who wait.. Sure if the opportunity of someone good comes along by all means use some initiative to make things happen... but I say us girls out there who are alone and looking for someone.. sometimes it does help to take a breath and just "know" that the wait is worth it! Ammy
  4. Hey there, My initial thoughts are that he could reply to an email no matter how shy he is. You've made it quite clear that you like him (even as a friend) and all he needs to do is click reply and write a few words back.. It seems to me that he doesn't have the effort in him.. It doesn't mean he doesn't like you at all but it means he doesn't like you as much as you deserve him to. I'd say leave it from here.. if he replies, then take it as a friend replying, don't hold too much hope with it all! In the meantime move on, there are plenty of other guys out there that will be willing to reciprocate and will like you as much as you deserve! I have had this happen to me too.. the thing is if a guy really likes you enough no matter how shy he will show you he likes you.. esp if the expectation is purely an email! You deserve better!! Ammy
  5. Hey there, I think you should start talking to her and then if you still feel the same way about it , just ask her.. what have you got to lose?? Some of us girls are quite ambiguous with our feelings for guys.. It's hard to tell whether we like you or not (usually our own shyness).. Ask her and then at least you'll have an answer either way and you can either move forward with her or move on! Ammy
  6. Oh and in addition to my previous post, on reading the whole conversation... Come on guys I don't think anyone was that rude in this situation.. Sure the reply could have been a little less harsh (although big deal, he left himself open for it by continuing to email someone who a) was not looking for someone like him, b) did not reply the first time. But anyhow his reponse was normal guy response.. not rude or scary either.. just plain irrelevant.. I'm guessing he thinks he's pretty "all that" and will brush this off and move on.. Don't stress!! That said I do agree we should all be careful online, you do never know what ppl are capable of.. In future just ignore people like that, if they continually annoy you, either send a very short response of better still block them. Hope this helps, Ammy
  7. I hate that!! It always happens to me too.. losers (judegmental i know) and old people and other inappropriate people always respond to my profile too.. It actually makes me feel worse than getting no responses.. like why did that person actually think we'd make a good couple... am I overestimating myself.. As for older people, and people who clearly haven't read the profile it makies me mad too.. but I'd say just ignore it.. if he continues to msg then maybe just say "It's kind of you to send me a message but unfortunately you do not meet the criteria i was looking for, i wish you well in your search." Ammy
  8. Absolutely.. I know I am!!!! Ammy
  9. Hey there, I'm the same.. I have high high standards.. But I think we're worth it - we deserve guys like that. I am sure that you value things in other people that you yourself possess.. If you are intelligent, witty etc or other similarly good qualities, then yes you want a good catch who also has similar or complimentary good qualities! It's not shallow at all! I don't know though.. I'm probably not the best person to give advice.. I've been single all my life.. lol I think we do have to I guess let some of the criteria go though in some cases.. Go with your gut, if someone falls short of the criteria but makes you happy then go for it.. You don't have to settle, but if you find someone "almost" right, and you're happy and content enough then I say stick with that! Not sure whether that made any sense! Ammy
  10. Hey guys, Ashlee Simpson: Dancing Alone (Album: I Am Me). See lyrics below. This is one of my most favourite songs. It's all about being single and waiting to find "the one" cos he is worth waiting for.. I think we can relate to this ... and then there's an interlude where she goes "CAN YOU HURRY UP??!!!" haha worth a listen... Sing this as a single girls' anthem and you'll feel much happier and more hopeful about being single.. We're not single for nothing.. it's because we're waiting for someone who is truley worth it!! In the meantime chin up, looking pretty cos he's just around the corner! Ammy "Dancing Alone" Nobody's gonna hold me back It's Friday night I feel alright Nobody's gonna bring me down It's my life And I'm doing fine Don't you know I wanna play So take me on a holiday So here I am Looking pretty for you They come and go So many faces it's no use So I'm dancing alone Dreaming solo Cause your love's the one worth waiting for It's just like heaven Nobody's gonna break my heart And hurt me like they did before No one can even get the part Not until I know it's deep Can't you come and take me away Take me to another place So here I am Looking pretty for you They come and go So many faces it's no use So I'm dancing alone Dreaming solo Cause your love's the one worth waiting for It's just like heaven Can you hurry up Can you feel my love I'm burning up I'm so hot I'm so hot I'm so hot Dancing alone Dreaming alone So here I am Looking pretty for you They come and go No one else here will do So I'm dancing alone Dreaming solo Cause your love's the one worth waiting for It's just like heaven Like heaven Cause your love's the one worth waiting for The one worth waiting for I'm dancing alone I'm dancing alone I'm dancing alone I'm dancing alone
  11. I agree with the post that said be approachable and wait for him to make a move, if he really is interested enough he will eventually pluck up the nerve!! ... Mixed signals suck!
  12. Don't stress sweetie!! This is a chance to get back into contact with him.. it's exciting! I'm sure the pic isn't that bad.. and anyway even if it's not your best, surely the guy who really matters wouldn't judge on one lame pic! Good luck!
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