Pharaoh

BINGO u figured it out...u deserved a better treatment...go for NC, heal ur self, regain your self confidence SORRY FOR U

Actually, i was so surprised that she did not react when we were breaking up. although she cried alot, but i think that she should have taken an action... i started to guess that she may didnt want me and she was waiting for me to break, but i guess that i am mistaken

In Fact....yes.... in my culture, her parents have the right to reject a proposed person, but not to force her to marry someone she doesnt want. however, my ex was her parent's only child, so they didnt show her that they rejected me....they made it seem as if i am the one who choose to breakup with her, and they will not force her to marry someone she doesnt like, but they will affect her choice. they will manipulate her thinking and will convence her that i am the bad guy.

I think that it is a very good idea to put all cards on the table and telling her about her parent's plans; however, will it be possible again when their parents know wht i will tell her to accept me as a husband to their daughter. i thinks things will be more complicated between my ex and her parents and between me and her...and ofcourse me and her parents......

Deal all, I don’t know where exactly to start, to make a long story shorter, I was living the best days of my life ever with my girlfriend. What we had was beautiful, and we were born to complete each other. We were just perfect. However, we both didn’t know that her parents were planning her life in their own. I proposed to her and she accepted, and her parents accepted me too, but delayed the engagement party to gain time to get ride of me. 2 days before the engagement part "JUST 2 DAYS BEFORE OUR ENGAGMENT PARTY", and without the knowledge of their daughter, they had a fight with me and told me that me and their daughter don't match as my salary was half of her and she owns a car and I don’t. …etc. I found out too that they were planning to replace me with another richer husband for their daughter. I am sure that my girlfriend didn’t know about any of there plans; however, I was very upset with the whole family especially after the alternative husband idea. I called her and we had a very big fight telling about their parent's argument with me and I END all what was between us. I was just very angry and nervous and I didn’t think of what I was saying…till now I am sure that she still doesn't know about the other husband. So, she is the person with the broken heart now, but I am the one who broke her heart "her parents are totally innocent in front of her and I am the one to be blamed for my actions towards her"; however, I am too totally broke and severely wounded…I love her too much…I love her to the extent that I dreamt and planned my entire life with and I cant and I don’t want to live without her…I know that she is not responsible for her parents actions, but still I was injured by her parents; however, I want her back so much. in fact, I need her so much I feel miserable without her presense in my life. And I also forget to mention that I meet her 1 week ago and she smiled to me and we had a normal conversation that lasted for 2 minutes only and she moved. Also I found that her parents brought her a newer car and newer cell phone and I guess they are doing great in pushing her to forget me..,……… PLEASE I NEED ALL POSSIBLE HELP AND ADVICE

Dear All, I was lucky to find Enotalone to fine that i am not alone in this world. Although I live in Egypt, it is inspiring to find that other people can feel how it hurts to break up with the love of your life. I found out from Ellie2006 that NC means No Contact; however, can anyone give me directions and elaborate more on this concept and how to apply it to help me get my ExGF back