Anathema001

I am uncertain about the feelings of a girl I am actually dating. Should I tell her before even something happened what I feel for her and ask her if to her I am more then a friend or shall I just w8 till the next date ? Its just that feeling about being uncertain makes me feel sick and sad ... and I dont want to be hurt in the future so I wanna make things clear for me and her. what should I do ?

Well I will do that for sure but I hope she will date me again and not think I aint interested in her. I already phoned her back wednesday to go out eating sonething. But she didnt answered but I left a message. Dam that makes me nervous >

I once went on a date where we went to 2 different places. I paid at the first pub but she INSISTED to pay for the second one. As stupid as I am I let her pay ... Error to avoid or forgivable ?

Ok I will do that. But about the flowers ... I always thought it would be nice to give that but like all my friends tell me its "oldstyle". Also alot of girls i know think like that Now I know women like a little extra attention so why not. After all I like her but am always scepetic when i hear the comments of others

I had a date with such girl and i feel the same way

hello everyone, I must say that usually I have no problems with relationships but this time I really had alot of questions that upset me. I even made this account just to be able to share my questions. So end last week i went out with a girl who works together with me. We spent like 3 fantastic hours together and we had great time. Actually I think it is the first time in my life that i met someone who is just like me, and also had the same projects for in the future. In short ... i was totaly charmed by that girl. Now here is where the trouble starts for me. I believe she gave me hints to kiss her but nothing happened ... I feel so bad about whole this , not the really the fact that i didn't kissed her but the fact that I think I didn't showed her the affection she diserved. Now i start thinking she thinks I don't like her but that isn't true ... its just I never have been a "straight" guy and to other people I am known as someone who has alot of problems to show his true feelings A bit like someone wo is very emotional but on the outside he appears cold Why do I think that ? Because she told me later "cu at work" and for me its like a hint that she doesn't want any further date. But I aint sure of this since we had such a great time and I could hardly believe she doesn't want to see me again. Now I thought about asking her about again tomorow for a dinner. I look forward to this like another chance. But I am affraid of her possible reactions. The other thing is that my health is suffering of all this. NEVER ever a girl had reached so deep inside me. I just have to see her again and I think that if she doesnt I will become highly depressive. Why ? Because i think i made several mistakes who could have been avoided. I just wish i could show my deep feelings to her without any problem. So some of my questions are : If nothing happened on that date is that bad ? Do u hink I still have a chance ? What should i do ? Any hints to help stress ? PS : I may sound a bit paranoic but usually I aint like that. I think that at the moment i am very confused. And sorry for my bad english it isnt my main language.