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  1. I just phoned back and it was her answering machine ... I think I also screwed up because I aint good at talking at the phone lol >
  2. ye maybe am worrying too much. U know ... I always had what some call fear of rejection or something ? Like now I am a bit affraid of calling her because there is a chance she could cancel or ... ARGH ... am doing it again O_O
  3. We do have other rules indeed. But to clarify things : the girl I was dating was the one I am talking about now. We arent together ( doh ) but whats confusing with that ? Maybe I explained myself bad in my ther topic . About the other girls, yes i passed on other dates but that just me. If I try to be confident with someone I cant do the same with someone else. Yes I aint involved with the girl yet and meybe it will never be something but hey, in the end there is only one that I will truly love and dont want to play around with others ... she came first so she gets my friendship first !
  4. Ok I will do that but anyway ... I will call her back in a moment to give her details to where we gonna dinner this saturday ... found a cool resto in town !Is there something I could tell her more maybe ?
  5. The more crazy they are the more I like them I am some kind off lunatic in my own way
  6. That sounds interesting ... so maybe I shouldnt tell her what i said now to give her space ? My question is how am I supposed to react ? I seek some kind of confirmation because she makes me very confused
  7. I saw her at work 1 week after our first date but since we have only small breaks we didnt had alot of time to talk. To me she seemed pretty cold since she didnt talked about our last date. She just confirmed she wanted to go out saturday again but she sounded uncertain to me :S
  8. Ok so since a week i asked some advice about different things on this forum and I must say most advice was a great help for me and I wanted to thank to people of ENA. So to resume short what happened -I went on a date with a girl i know from work, we had a great time but nothing happened yet. -We said we would date again, but she said it only be ok this saturday ... that meas 2 weeks after the first one. -She became distant in her ¸messages, no more flirting like she used too. Its always me who call/message her first. - I THINK she is dating someone else aswel but am not quiet sure. From the advice i took, i am 90% sure she isnt interested anymore in me but since she didnt called off the date MAYBE she still is however maybe she also want things to end in silence. So I will call her and this is what am going to say : "I noticed last week u became more distant toward me then before, maybe because of sonething I did or said ?. That made me ask myself the question if u really had the need to date me ?" I ask her this because I dont want to get involved in something heartbreaking. If she wants to date me I think she should make it more clear toward me. I aint selfish but I can tell u that in those 2 weeks I missed other occasions with other girls ( I dont date different people at the same time ). And I dont think I get the attention I diserve IF she likes me. I do like her but it is like I get nothng in return. Should I tell her what i wrote above or is it a bad idea ?
  9. I once told that to a girl and she liked it. I hope not everyone is that cliche.
  10. well she is doing a very important endyear stage for school atm >
  11. dam I already thought so aswel ... but why dont she tell me then ? If she is not interested why date me ?
  12. I wonder how long is good between dates ? My 2nd date now will be 2 weeks after the first one. Thats is because she cant go before she said. 2 weeks is bad nd too long or is it fine ? I respect others people shedule but if it takes that long does the other person really likes you ? Dont u have the need to c someone more often if u like him ?
  13. Ok thnx but I never said I wanted a cycle / car to be a bad boy
  14. I am thinking since some time about buying a bike but my friends say a car is better for any wether and for when u have to bring people to parties.
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