MikeyD

Hey, so yea my Ex broke up with me like a month ago and we was only a month and a half together, nothing big so to me it was cool to still be friends since i had gotten to know her good b4 we went out thru her brother and mutual friends. so yea we had a GREAT relationship, we both felt it was great, everybody around us said it was great, but stress on her part caused the break up so she felt she needed to break up with me ("supposedly" due to no fault of my own). so after the break up i got a msg from her on myspace like explaining stuff cuz b4 she never really completely broke it down, so she asked me if we still cool and im like yea cuz she a cool person and im not a bitter person, i'd still be friends with an ex if i feel i can (as in not having overwhelming feelings that make it not possible to talk to them). we kept on msgin each other back and forth and stuff and then not too long after that we talk on aim, like normal, friends and stuff so im like thats cool we can make this work. After that, no contact on her part, or my part, not too long ago i msged her on myspace like a normal friend sayin "hey wat up, its been awhile, u still having computer issues?". she didnt reply. LOL and to my surprise today i noticed that she deleted me as one of her friends LOL, but my question is WHY?! If she wanted to be friends after the break up and i was ok with it, y would she delete me. And not to mention according to her page it says shes in a relationship, so if she really in a relationship and "wants to be friends" wats the deal? i dunno if this could be some insight on y but supposedly i was her best relationship she's ever had in every way.

Hey im planning on talkin to this girl in church tomorrow (prolly after she looks at me a couple times or so) and since we dont have that much time to talk to when i plan on doing it (for many reasons) i was thinkin if this is a good way to start a very short convo and get to know her better later on. Me- Hey What up? (depending if i see she gonna react i'll let her say something if not go to the next line) Me- Whats ur name? Her - blah blah Me- im blah blah, listen, i really want to talk to u but this isnt the time or the place, do u have a myspace page? Ok about that last thing wit the myspace page, i see it like more likely that she'd be willing to give up her myspace page than her number so easily. Also i'd feel MUUUCH less akward talkin to a girl online (and thereforeeee muuuuch more flirtatious and stuff) so, waddaya think?

WOW, if he have never received it (neither have I), im pretty sure he'd be happy with the fact that he's finally getting one (i know i sure damn would). Ok on to the advice from wat ive heard/seen thats good, make sure ur teeth NEVER TOUCH, dont try to put TOO much in ur mouth to the point where u gag but dont just be at the top either, while ur doing it, like jerk him off at the same time. umm, licking is good too, and last as long as needed, dont just stop right away, thats all i can think of

dont ever blame urself, its ur first time, its natural for u to be extra tight, hell, it'd even be natural if it was to hurt more than anything and if u bleed. dont ever blame urself cuz of ur body, thats just gonna make u feel worse

oh yea forgot lube, depending on the situation, lube can be very important. so yea, its ALWAYS good to finger a girl b4 going in, getting her wet would add extra lube and would make it easier if she extra tight as is ur case. U'll never hear a guy complain about too tight tho

well since it is ur first time and u tight, he gotta finger u first. start with 1, and keep going till u stretch a lil and then do 2, enuff so it can stretch enuff for him to get it in. Btw. im a virgin guy too, im just talkin on whim, on wat i would do if i was to have sex wit a virgin, so u can take my advice with a grain of salt.

I dont know where to post this so thought this would be ok. Ladies, y is it that ya dont like being approached in the street like while ya walkin or standing around. Ive had many friends that say that they dont like it, like they think its some weirdo or just like say anything to brush them off or if they manage to keep up the convo, feel akward while talkin to guys. Whats up wit that?

LOL well lemme rephrase it (yes i know im a confusing person lol). Alright this is wat i meant. The girls i come accross, like they never (or to me atleast) have showed any interest in a guy by eye contact even if they do indeed like them. So wat i meant by that is, is there a way to like make them crack and have them do something thats obvious sign of attraction i.e lickin lips, blushin, playin with hair, etc

is there a way to like "smoke them out" if they like u or not? Like if they give u eye contact and like not smiling at u, licking lips, playing with hair, etc. is there like a way to like smoke out their sometimes cold look. Like have them break and maybe smile at u if they like u or lick they lips or play with they hair and stuff, anybody know?

is there a way to like "smoke them out" if they like u or not? Like if they give u eye contact and like not smiling at u, licking lips, playing with hair, etc. is there like a way to like smoke out their sometimes cold look. Like have them break and maybe smile at u if they like u or lick they lips or play with they hair and stuff, anybody know?

man i would LOVE for a girl to actually smile, i NEVEEEEER get that, honestly thats y i be confused wether its just lookin or actually interested.

i have always encountered some girls that look eye me, like eye contact but one thing i have always wondered is if its just like looking around and just happen to get eye contact with me or is she giving me eye contact cuz they like me or think im attractive or w/e. Like i dunno wat it is about girls in NYC but for me ive never had a girl give me eye contact and have like some obvious flirting thing along with it (licking lips, playing with hair, stuff like that). So my question is how can i tell the difference between eye contact cuz she's attracted or eye contact because shes lookin around and happened to look at me?

well, that would be a good idea, but lol this church the members are not THAT commited, its like yea she'll go every sunday like me, but its only an hour church and barely nobody (well not around my age) goes to church activities like that so thats out. I just need a sure fire way to approach, like while we're leaving and stuff, that can make a GOOD impression so she dont forget about me (doubt it since we go evry sunday and kinda like cross eyes sometimes) and have her interested till i see her next, cuz i doubt ima be able to talk to her outside when her moms and older brother are there, that would be an akward moment. anybody else have some suggestions? edit: - i doubt she married, since she looks like a lil bit younger than me (im 18, so i'll say she 17 or so). about the friends that may know her fam, only ppl i know that go to church is me and my brother and on rare occasions my aunt, but this aint a church where ppl really interact to each other like as friends outside of church. i hate to draw into stereotypes, but the way i see it, this is the best way for me to paint a picture. This is an all hispanic church in the middle of the 'hood', so theres not many ppl going around with manners and stuff, trust me, i hear how ppl speak, even during church.

I already posted this in the attraction and flirting topic and didnt get any responses so im tryin here, DONT LYNCH ME alright, theres this girl in my church and i wanna talk to her but dont know how to go about doing that cuz its in church so its like we cant talk, and she comes wit her moms and older brother (hopefully thats her brother). I dont know if she like me or not but she sometimes looks at me, but nothing like flirting (i.e licking lips, eye contact for awhile, does nothing that makes it seem like she like me, AKA nothing obvious). so like how should i go about it, and how do i know that those looks are her showing interest and not just looking around (like today, she sat like directly in front of me on the other side so her looking straight would be lookin at me) -P.S to make things harder, im not the type that approach random girls to talk to like that, never have

any suggestions how i should go about it or make that approach, i really need help in approaching women ESPECIALLY when in a situation like this, inside a church