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thanks guys i see how its kind of pressuring im just going to go to her house give her the flowers and pretty much be on my way she deserves it because i put her through alot. thanks again.
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the thing is i use to never really care about holidays and would rarely get her stuff and i wanted to show her that i can change. i use to be broke because of my idiot driving but now have a great job and wanted to show her that all those hundreds of dollars that she wasted on me i am willing to be like her.
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me and my girlfriend have been kind of rocky lately and yesterday we decided we should be friends but with hopes of geting back together. i really want to be with her words cant describe how i feel about her. i was thinking sending flowers, chocalate covered strawberries, and a big card to her class(shes in college) how would you take it if you were in her shoes? would you think its weird? if it might make you consider us going back out? maybe its a cheesy idea? thanks in advanced.
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How to Get and Keep the Person You Desire
eclipse01 replied to kamurj's topic in Relationship Advice
hey rhonda i lost my girlfriend because i feel things have changed but i need her desperately back. we are always on and off but now we are really off. it seems like she doesnt care anymore to get back together but she says she wouldnt date anyone else and when we tried going back out again last week she would say she loved me and be affectionate with me but now refuses to answer. why is that and how do i get her back in my life. thanks.- 69 replies
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i recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years because it seems like everything has changed.and she constantly hangs out with her friend a female by the way. i feel like crap because i took her for granted all these years and now i realize that i am madly in love with her. she doesnt believe me when i say id change. i tried showing her i can change for a week but i sometimes get a good response from her but sometimes its not. she says shes not dating anyone else and wont but still hesitates to say she loves me. we tried going back out and she would say she loved me and be affectionate sometimes. but it seems like her friend is number one priority and i feel i should be. i dream about her cheating on me or just having sex with an other guy. i think about her every second and regret taking her for granted. i dont know what to do i desperately need her back because she has always been there for me and has been my back bone through everything. i feel unhappy and incomplete wit out her. we fight alot but its mostly about her friend. i doubt she would date anyone right now plus she said it but i need and want her. i am planning to send her roses to her classroom on v-day. and a letter. i dont know if thats right or what.im hoping she takes me back i love her with all my heart and feel like crap because i cheated on her and wouldn't even care. she would be the one crying and wanting me back because we were always on and off now im her and shes me she doesnt even care to fight anymore when we argue she just says ok and that leaves me shut because we dont resolve anything. any suggestions? any advice? we would fight about her driving everywhere to but thats only becuase i totaled my eclipse but get it back this week. she drives her friend everywhere but doesnt complain. please help me.
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i have two really quick questions. im embarrassed to admit that for some reason i seem ejactulate quick when i have sex with my girlfriend. is there anyway of making myself last longer? i heard of masturbating but i dont want to result to that. also for valentines day what do you think if i send 2 dozen roses and some chocolate covered strawberries to my girlfriends class? we are both in college. if thats not good than any advice? thanks.
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i lack that self confidence. i would call my girlfriend the most beautiful girl in the world because she was hot and other guys would like her while i was going out and she would just say thanks. as a guy a little compliment here and there wouldn't be so bad but i never got anything. i got it once every blue moon. now im sure i look like crap i get no sleep and sleep weird hours due to night shift and morning school.
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im 18 and just started a full time job and also go to school full time so needless to say i have very little time for friends or girlfriends im pretty sure thats how i lost my exgirlfriend of 3 years this week. the point is i've been at my new college since august and whenever a girl would smile and look at me i was forced to look away because my girlfriend would get jealous. Due to my ex girlfriend i had no female friends and barely any real guy friends. now i want to make new friends and possibly go back in to dating because i miss my ex girlfriend so much and i know thats the only way to get over her. i have low self esteem due to my ex girlfriend is there any way i can get back into dating and raise my self esteem? any tips would help. thanks in advance.
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i've been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and i just dont feel happy anymore. i see other couples kissing and being affectionate in public and i wish that would be me. I just started a full time job and am also going to school full time and it wears me out. Lately my girlfriend has been hanging out with her ONE friend but stays out pretty late in a bad city. she hangs out with her friend and her brother which makes me feel unconfortable because my girlfriends reason for hanging out with her friend was because of family problems but it doesnt make sense because he brother also joins in sometimes. why cant the girl and her brother just get away from the house? they suppossably just watch movies or go out to eat. i dont know if something is up with her friends brother but i have a huge feeling that something else is going on. Also i am the only one that ever wants to have sex and that seems to enjoy it. as sad as that sounds i feel so upset about the entire thing. i go to parties and see guys grinding with girls and my girlfriend is so quiet and kept to herself. im the exact opposite. im loud and love to hang out with other people. my girlfriend doesnt drink, party, dance or atleast not with me. i dont know what to do i called her and told her that i know that shes up to something and that i dont want to see her anymore. We always have our fights when we break up and get back to gether but i told her to just leave me alone an not even think about me because i want to get her out of my life. what should i do? i feel so empty and feel like im by myself. thanks in advance, Chris.
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