galaXyGyrl
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Is there any way your parents could give you a loan or you could get a loan to start paying your debt that way later you can save up, move out, find a dream job & finally start living life the way you wish to on your own terms.
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Two people I felt had too much pride- would not admit they needed help with something, would not be true about themselves to others. Maybe she feels you are holding back a part of yourself ? or not sharing something.
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I love my wife but not inlove with her
galaXyGyrl replied to Deviltou67's topic in Emotions and Feelings
Do you feel the younger woman will be in it for the long run? Does it matter? Does she wish for commitment to you? Does she mind being the other woman? Is there anyway to rekindle the fire with your wife? or have you grown apart. Which do you feel is interested in the same things you are interested in (other than loving) whom do you think you could rely on? Have you thought about seeing a counselor to help you through this??? someone unbiased? -
He is very delusional. He believes one hug will make all his lies go away or "loving". It is crazy. I forgave but I can't be expected to feel things when there is no basis of a relationship in the first place.
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Yes a little shorter & with heals you can really tell but you can see celebrity couples like Tom & Katie? she is taller I think & it doesn't seem to matter. What does matter to me is perhaps TOO TALL & coordination... I mean I Have danced with some really tall bbplayers & their knees can hit you in awkward places it was just horrible & out of sink. I think personality & physical attraction while together will be more important than height.
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How long have you guys been online dating or known each other? Oh my goodness I Just realised your name desert rose, my beau gave me a desert rose one of the first presents lol. It looked like a petrified poo lol oh dear it was so funny I burst out laughing. Of coarse there was a heart & peacock rock too but that was just soo funny.
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Like this guy, but he doesn't want online relationship
galaXyGyrl replied to ShyCynic's topic in Online Dating
Unless he shows you his diploma/photo id's or real official documents You won't really know what is true. He spends much time with you it sounds because he isn't working & when he starts working full time he will have less time for you. Right now he is skating at home hoping to have some cybersex because it will cost less than a real gf, relationship where he feels he won't be successful at because he doesn't have the money to truly date...? and you cannot be guaranteed you are the love of a lifetime/first/ true love since you will not be in person for 2 years. So you get to perform like a love monkey on the webcam for how long? Be very careful dear please, because where you may be seeing love he may be seeing something entirely different. -
Someone that pressures you is not a friend. Other friends that know this person would know this also. You don't need that type of person that doesn't respect you for whom you are inside. Also, no doubt if he is pressuring you for online sex, online sex stories or online photos/videos it won't stop there. Nothing will ever be enough to satisfy his desires and it is only about him and his pleasure, not actual sharing, caring, trust or friendship. Don't sacrifice yourself or your body for someone whom isn't a true friend and doesn't respect you.
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Has anyone here ever suffered from knowing a person whom has erotomania or have any information about this subject? It is like the person invents or has a fantasy of what is real and doesn't take responsibility for the end of the relationship. He doesn't accept over a year of no contact and still lives in his fantasy world i.e romantic love is on his mind. He stalks me online, tries to find my new emails so that he continue to contact me regardless of no contact from my part. I am to the point where I can see myself having to change my name legally to hope to never hear from him again. It was an online friendship only and he tried to force a meeting after years of lying about his identity, where he lived, all the lies to cover up his "ego" problems. stalking victims dot com is one of the only other places I have found so far...
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You want your ex back? Things to avoid certain doom!
galaXyGyrl replied to SuperDave71's topic in Getting Back Together
You sound like you are doing good & this guy needs your advice , the statement he said is similar to what I have heard & it truly scares me. In my situation I found the person had Lied & lied some more to cover up those lies (living with mom) etc.../ constantly wanted to be forgiven/ make up etc & will never go away, sometimes you can forgive over & over again, but just aren't going to feel the same again. It was online only & I have had no desires to ever meet him so NC for a year has still made NO DENT, he constantly emails and found a new email he was NEVER given to spam & I fear will pop up unannounced any day. He did try that once & was removed and will be again if it happens again. -
Trying to accept that I was verbally abused...
galaXyGyrl replied to Steelergal's topic in Abuse and Violence
Hi there is another site that could help you too, the people are wonderful & it specifically deals with VA/EA/PA COEY, you name it...google dr. irene and verbal abuse. The people are friendly & only wish to help as they are going through similar experiences. I am not an advertiser but went there for help myself. ((((Steelergal))) sometimes we romantisize the ideal & then learn about the real person after already becoming enmeshed or codependant. You deserve much better than how you were treated. -
I was "SHOCKED" he had been hiding his hair the entire time of the friendship in such a way to cover up what he didn't like about himself. His lies before even seeing his hair had ended it for me so that I didn't wish to see him in person EVER. But, that he had successfully hiden that for year(s) also just made me feel ill.
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"no matter what happens I will never let you disappear from my life." To me this is a pretty scary thing to hear. I think this is a very strong thing to say to someone whom is trying to cool things off. She seems happy where she is at and with the way things are. You pushed her too much too soon for her, you invaded her (boundaries). She probably felt pressured. I am sorry for your loss, and I too lost a family member recently. I understand too that that can be traumatic and lead you to feelings of wishing to live life to the fullest if you weren't already. Maybe you should try & get a counselor and try your best to give this girl some space or you will loose the friendship too. She mentioned feeling that the friendship was ending and it seemed that was what she valued the most.