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And plus he always texted me straightaway to ask for another date after saying goodbye... and it makes me feel really confused that he suddenly backed off...

Thanks Batya33. I did reject his invite but only when he suddenly asked me out before the date that we arranged earlier and told him that I was busy... I am not very convienced that he wants me to be his girlfriend even on the first date! I want to take it slow, but his last minute cancellation and ignorance do put me off and leave me confused....

Thanks guys! But do you think that by going to his birthday drinks and meeting his close frineds is a way of showing that I am seriously interested? And also I said I wanted to take it slow and to get to know each other etc...

I have only dated this guy for three times. He seems is very into me. And he never tried anything hard to get physically close to me… But I was not so interested and so rescheduled few dates and delayed replying his texts or emails most of the time… no reply since then! (3 days) Is he playing mind games or just simply gave up? Will he contact me when he is back? Should I contact him if he does not? Should I give him stronger signals? Sorry for the long text and thanks for any opinions!