roxursox

Well I'm only speaking from personal experience, I dont finger many other girls...

well if you're looking for the g-spot, make a come hither motion with your fingers and you'll feel some bumpy ridges, thats the money maker.

Well, it turns out he broke up with me yesterday. After all he said about being there when I needed him, I guess the nervous breakdown was too much for him because he gave me the " I can't give you what you need" line. It's okay though. Since then my friend has been acting significantly more... interested. Again, thanks for all of your help.

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it. I can't exactly say what I'm going to do at this point, but I'm considering just breaking it off with him, I don't think he deserves to be led on, he means too much to me for me to do that to him. I just hope that he can understand that I do love him, just not as romantically as I once thought.

So "M" and I have been together for a while now, but recently I've been having intense feelings for one of my very close friends. I told him about it and he completely flipped out, which is understandable given the situation. I told him that I was confused and didn't know what to do, and he asked that we not talk until I had made up my mind, however, he has called me at least three times since he told me that 2 days ago. I really do love him and I don't want to hurt him anymore than I already have by telling him, but I just don't know what to do. My feelings for my friend are so strong that it's almost overwhelming, but I don't want to break it off with "M" just on a whim, although i know it's so much more than that. I'm going crazy trying to decide what to do, I had a nervous breakdown on the phone with him while we were discussing what I should do, and now he feels like he needs to compromise so that I'll be relatively stable. I feel so dirty and manipulative, I love him, I don't want him to compromise himself and his integrity just because I'm being indecisive. I don't know what to do, can someone please help me?