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An attractive female will get dozens of flirty horny boys comin after her.

Nice eyes only work on a pretty face.

Yea, very sexy if it matches the girl. Also a nice seducing smile always works.

If you've never spoken to her, chances are slim to nill that she will agree.

Instant messaging in relation to MSN. I have personally been on the opposite side of the situation, but Im curious if people would agree that the longer someone takes to respond to an IM, usually the less interest they have in you. Also the number of words in their sentences in response to your questions shows a great level of attention placed into you. Even starting conversations usually details the level of interest; which party starts them the most often. Disregarding any possible bias in my post, do people agree? or disagree?

If hes not completely open, then its a fling. Im a guy, and I've done this. Delayed responses, not calling, not really caring much. But you can play it in reverse aswell. If it seems to him that you are losing interest, then it works wonders on his mentality. But generally, no longterm relationship possible.

When I pull back from a girl, its usually because she is giving easy signals of attraction, but she is not what Im looking for. There is a space for friendship, but there there is the intimate space aswell. I personally know that sometimes I send the wrong signals to girls who are attracted to me.

Ask her out. Rejection is the least u'll have to worry about.

Basically, they have to be attractive, and not with someone for me to garner any beyond-friendship attention for them.

Sounds like you're a pretty sexy and outgoin girl. My female equivalent

It's super effective both ways. I personally became infatuated with a girl just the other day simply from an elongated eye-contact. Now Im inclined to pursue.

You arnt afraid of it being too long. You're afraid of rejection. This is the #1 reason so many people have a hard time figuring out if someone likes them or not.

Rebound. Be weary.

It's true. Girls subconsciously love the alpha male. Doesnt mean the alpha male loves them back though. Personal experience.

He might be intimidated by other guys around you, or perhaps other girls. Or perhaps the dude is just outgoing and randomly talks to many people. As an outgoin guy myself, I have many female friends, but normally if the girl I wish to flirt with actually shows interest, then I go for it. Otherwise, general small talk and friendly gestures are always free and arnt socially dangerous. From the male perspective, it is easier for the guy to know hes got a shot if the female shows some initiative.