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  1. you are exactly right...to make these statements about half of the population? sure, im guessing there are guys like this, no i know there are, but not as many as some may think
  2. i think im afraid that im right, that sex is all she wants...thats why i just posted on here...what can i say im not that type of person, i would like to with her, dont get me wrong, but i know id get emotionally attached to her because i already feel like i am, i do this alot, get attached to easily...i wish i didnt
  3. i think youre right, no point in getting hurt, thanks for your help
  4. whats the real problem here though, are you depressed because of no girl, or are you just depressed...you have to find yourself first, bring yourself to life before you work on a girl. ive been going through trying to do this myself and i think many people have to do this, its sounds simple, but some of us need to work on ourselves psychologically. get comfortable with who you are and begin to love life again, then go after it, if that is the scenario. seriously, hang in there alot of us go through it, you are not alone...and trust me, a woman isnt always the answer to everything
  5. we were together again last night and i know if anything she would just want sex now, she tells me things that no girl would tell a guy if they actually had interest in them, basically constantly raving about her ex and how nothing could ever be that good again...yea i really want to hear all this, i think she just wants sex and doesnt care if its me or someone else, which makes me feel kind of hollow inside, because i think sometimes we connect...its like shes the stereotypical male and im the stereotypical female, maybe i should just take it for what it is and move on, with or without her?
  6. ok, so about a week and a half ago i met this girl at a party, she was pretty and we were drinking and eventually made out and stuff. the night ended (at like 6 am) and we exchanged numbers and all this. a couple days later we went to the movies and then a couple days after that we did it again but went further this time. we went for a drive afterwards and she told me all this stuff about like 5-10 guys shes been with (take that in whatever sense you want to) in the last couple of years and just completely blindsided me, i just wanted to end the date right there...she also said one of the guys was a friend with benefits currently. so i was just about ready to drop her off, but felt like id keep it going, we went up to a mountain here and made out for awhile and then i just held her in my arms, i felt like she wanted to go further though, but i was not prepared...in more ways than one (condoms)...anyway, i dropped her off in the early morning and talked to her later that day, since then we havent done anything and i think its partially my fault. i wanted something more out of her and i but i dont think she wants that, does she just want more sex? id be down with that too i guess, but i feel weird doing it just for it, especially when we have these nice, romantic moments too, so what does she want? and if it is only sex should i go for it? thanks for any help
  7. im sure another opportunity will come up...you dont have to push it yourself and make it obvious, just wait, if she does feel the way you say...she will give you another opportunity (sometimes i think we all wish girls would just do it instead of hint) but we can be that way too at times i guess. dont push it on her, im sure itll just happen
  8. im glad this thread was made (not that im happy about what yer going through). i feel the same way alot, and im in about the same situation (minus the gf i have these days too, it was deffinitely one today, where i couldnt find anything to do, but at the same time didnt feel like talking to anyone anyway, i didnt even wanna pick up the phone and call someone, but i was upset about how bored/tired/alone i felt. part of it for me i think is that this break between semesters is too damn long (never thought id say that) i guess i could use some college buddies getting back in town to brighten things up, but aside from this, i do know what you mean. sometimes ill be sitting on the computer and it turns into hours because ive just let things go, also got in a fight with my dad today which didnt help. are you thinking about your future alot? worried/scared about it, i have alot of thoughts like this as well. something i would recommend is walking if you dont already. if yer feeling down in the dumps and dont feel really sociable, go for a walk...its even better if you have an mp3 player of some sort, it can really clear your mind out...also going for a drive does the same. hope something here helped, good luck
  9. ive never measured width, but yea, i do it from like right at the base...do what ya gotta do to get those extra millimeters...hardy har
  10. you say good things here, i have had bad experiences with even weed, the first time i smoked...i mean reallllly smoked.....the come down sucked, i didnt know what was happening my heart was beating really fast and i was scared. some people cant handle it...if anyone is considering doing any type of drugs here, if you have worries about it and arent confidant about it before you do it, then DONT do it...it will only screw with your mind when you use the substance
  11. i agree, people are different though, some have a problem with it and its ok too, just dont hang around people who do it if you have a problem with it
  12. no, its not like that..we arent that close at all, we are merely friends. it is a little bit easier not to repeat it in my mind now, but just in general sometimes with members of the opposite sex, i cant stop thinking about them, im assuming it will pass, i feel like it is already, it just is strong sometimes....idk , maybe i shouldnt have even started this thread, i just wanted to see if anyone else has gotten this way for no real apparent reason
  13. maybe its just a phase then, sure you feel this way now, but we all have probably had times when we were ingrateful about things. for example, you should be grateful that there are people here willing to help. idk if it is something that you just try to cure or not, you know...idk if you can just make yourself start being appreciative or not, maybe just sit down and think what people do for you or realize that you should cherish each day on this earth...its a tough point to get to, but understand that we are all free to do what we please basically, there are not many boundaries, im sure eventually you will come out of it
  14. when i was younger i used to feel like everyone i knew did it or claimed to so they could look "cool" but now seeing the college scene, surprisingly id doesnt seem like many do it. i do it every now and then, im not a buyer or anything like that, but if its there...
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