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ellen23

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  1. Hey PacoPaco I have to tell you that I only had a two year relationship and mine ended a year ago in January. The length of my relationship was not even half as long as yours and I am still very sad. Actually I am feeling severely sad for a few days already and it feels so intense as if we just broke up a week ago. The difference though is that I still have a lot of contact with my ex and I think that is why I am in the stage I am. I still did not give up hope for us to come back together and as much as I wish I could move on, inside of me there is always something that keeps me hanging on to my ex. I already started some therapy but not even that seems to help. I always have set backs. Paco, I really think that it is ok that you still have these feelings. People are different and that is why some take longer to let go of someone they deeply love.
  2. midgi, i am sorry that you have the same problem. I do not know how much more it takes until i am finally tired of feeling that way. good luck! let me know how things are going for you.
  3. Hey Rosie, I am from Germany and live in the united states now. I do not want to complain because it was my choice to come over here by myself. I feel exactly the same with what you said. He was my main support over here and now I have to lose it all so I can finally heal. he wants to be there for me but its not good for him or me to be close becsause he feels guilty when he sees me depressed and this just does no good for anyone. He already mentioned he feels worried and scared about me because I do not seem to heal. So I think it is really time to change but the pain kills... I am happy that you made it. thanks for reading
  4. Thanks kalika, you are so right! Hopefully my rational thoughts will be stronger than my heart. Good for you that you know what you want in your relationship. Do not stay with someone who is not there 100%. Good Luck!
  5. Hi Kalika Thank you for the quick response. We have been together for two years and he broke up a year ago. since then we still hang out. I guess that is the problem. I should have cut him off a long time ago but its so hard because i love him and in addition i became really close to his family. I do not have any family over here and that i why I attached myself too much to him. Now I have the feeling of being helpless. I made it even harder for me because i let one year go by without detaching myself and it feels just like yesterday that he broke up with me. right now I still love him so much that I just want to heal and not start a new relationship. What about you Kalika? I assume you are here because of a break up. How are you doing with your healing?
  6. Hi everyone, this is my first post. It's nice to see that so many poeple help each other in this forum. My problem: my bf broke up a year ago and i still can't let go Even though I want to feel better I am scared of letting go and I think it is becoming a real problem now. Is there anyone in this forum who heals that slow? I am desperate and open for any suggestions.
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