mintleaf

Ah, where can I find more guys like you? Would you admit, though, that with your taste for very flat-chested women you belong to a very small minority? And I also wonder whether it is possible to tell what type of women a guy prefers just judging from the kind of person he is. Like, for instance, would athletic men tend to prefer a certain feminine body type, and intellectual men prefer another type? Of course, I already know without anyone telling me that the answer can never be as clear-cut as that. But I do wonder if there is a very slight trend or pattern. I generally feel quite secure about my appearance. I've always been told how pretty I am, and I've actually learned to look on the bright side of being flat-chested (I don't get any back pains, for one, LOL). I will never consider increasing my breast size through surgery, for instance. But a part of me is always wondering how the man I'm with would react as soon as I take off my clothes. (I confess that I wear slightly padded bras, not for any insecure reasons, but only to fill out my clothes better.) I know, I know -- if he loves me then it shouldn't matter. People tell me that. But I don't know if I can believe it. It's possible to love someone without being sexually attracted to her -- isn't it?

I know that breasts are one of the main turn-ons for men about a woman's body. So I'm wondering, would men have trouble being turned on during sex if a woman is very flat-chested (like if she has A-cup size breasts or even smaller)? How important are (women's) breasts for men during sex? Would it make a difference if she has a very pretty face and is generally very attractive, or if you're in love with her personality? Would the man's age and/or experience make a difference? I hope this question isn't too confusing.

I haven't read the other responses in this thread, but I would just like to say that in some cultures it's actually normal to live with your parents until you get married. As an Asian myself, I don't really have any problems with a guy who lives with his parents. I have a cousin who is 34 and unmarried, has a good job, and still lives with his parents. Friends and family don't think there's anything wrong with him. He pays for his own expenses as well as a part of the overall living expenses, gives his parents money, sends them travelling, etc. He's responsible and mature, and he can get along with his parents (unlike a lot of people who moved out early). Right now he's being pursued by a very attractive woman who's a doctor. (He's a pharmacist.) Admittedly, this woman is also Asian, so she doesn't see anything wrong with him living at home.

My favourite length for men's hair is slightly longish (especially if it's wavy) hair, probably because it looks less uptight and formal. And probably because hair on a guy's head is very important to me. What I mean by "longish" is longer than average length but shorter than shoulder-length. I love running my fingers through a guy's hair. In some cases I don't mind shoulder or past shoulder-length either -- but it depends on whether it suits him. I'm also fine with average length. What I don't like is hair that's very short cropped or no hair at all. For some reason guys with no hair actually seem less "masculine" to me. No offense to guys with short or no hair; I'm just talking about my very individual sense of what is "masculine" (i.e. probably my very personal animus). I know that most women actually perceive short or no hair as being more masculine. As for the age thing, I'm opposite to what most women have said here about themselves. When I was young I actually preferred guys with short hair because that was the image of what was "masculine" traditionally. But as I got older I actually started to like longer hair on men. (I'm in my late 20s now.) I also wonder whether the changes in taste as time goes by has anything to do with the trends that were fashionable when we were young as opposed to the current fashion for men. For instance, years ago, long hair was often fashionable for members of boy bands and a certain subculture of men whilst nowadays all the fashionable men in the media seem to have really short hair. Or at least that's what I seem to notice.