Kantia

Well we did meet online, we knew each other as friends for about 4 months before we decided to meet, and that's when he told me he liked me more than a friend, and we continued to meet up every weekend... And I suppose it's best to talk to him, but it's so hard to even get the words out, how would I start it without it sounding like a lecture?

Hi all, Me and my boyfriend met over the internet, and he moved to where I was and we've been together for just over 3 years. There's been no shouting, abuse, or anything of the sort that's happened, so I guess everything has been ok... Apart from one thing in my mind. When we use to meet up (When we had out long distance relationship) We use to be intimate every weekend, and in the first two years (When he moved to where I lived) we would have sex at least twice a week, but now, after 3 years... I'm lucky if I get it once a month, or even a cuddle if I'm feeling a little low. I'm always the one to imply if I want sex, and most times I go into the bedroom and do it solo. His excuses are that he's tired from work... or he's too busy playing on his computer game with his friends. But his friends are the ones that use to live where he did, so I'd feel bad forcing him off there as it's the only contact he has with them. So... all in all, I don't feel very loved by him, and I almost feel as if we're just best friends, which I don't want.. I just don't really know what else to do...