dyoung
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I'm sorry to hear this I'm in pretty much the same situation. Now I havent read everys one post but I wondering why are you working. You are understanding that he is tired and trust me I work alot also and like you my wife is ready to "go" in a drop of the hate. Now Me I know I've got my own issues I've gain weight like 50 lbs, not happy about it so sex for me isnt like it used to be, I'm not happy with myself so I dont have the same urges (used to want it everyday), and with work I'm tired. So my question is why arent you working, if he is tired cause he working all the time. Would it help if possible for you to get a job to stop him from working the way he is? My thing is at that point, if that isnt helping then fine find another solution. but right now with him working like this there is no solution... Does he need to work like this or he doing it cause he wants like 20K just sitting in his bank account? D.
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Sorry to hear about your problem, it is sad. but you should be mad at your dad, he is also was involved in this mess. and could have stopped it any time. Sorry!
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Leave, she'll get nothing maybe child support. Not cause she cheated but because of how she went about it. She puts you out of your home! Then she bring him into your home! Not trying to be mean but those are two facts I couldnt let go! Especially when you guys dont have any issues like that only cause she needs some extra on the side. I can understand that but that is something you attempt to talk about, baby I'm bored can you buy some sex toys, baby I'm bored with the sex toys, can I get a girlfriend, baby I'm bored with the girlfriend, can I now have an boyfriend... I mean its a progression to attempt to change things she went 360 ROLL OUT!
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Ummm... So wife #2 was once were you sit, and remember you admitted you are catching feelings. I wonder is that what she said once upon a time. You know you are wrong on so many levels, However I'm not going to jump all down your throat about it. I always say when it comes to cheating and infidelity, nobody can break up a HAPPY home! but as far as your problem you probably need to walk away from the situation a bit and be his friend not his girlfriend cause that is basically what you are doing... If he chooses to leave him wife that is on him, what I would do even if its not true, is tell him you two will always be "friends" and you will never be his gilfriend or wife. So this way in his mind he will do what is right for him and nobody else. Good Luck
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I personally think you should be able to say Happy Birthday... I dont mean to flame any of you guys, but some of you are tripping. Just because you stop dating someone doesnt mean they are or you are a bad person....
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EXACTLY, ITS LIKE "BLOOD IN THE WATER TO A SHARK"
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maybe I'm confused, now I know I'll blow in a good 5 minutes but after I blow the first time, I'm still ready to party and continue on for atleast 45 minutes or longer. now in that time I might blow a few times but what the problem... it can get a little messy but what the problem? I'm confused...
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I wonder if he will ever forgive me?? Lost my ex's trust..
dyoung replied to Scorpio8647's topic in Breaking Up Advice
send him some flowers, yes I know they are gay but its the thought that counts. In the card say I know I was wrong, and psychotic but I would like to be friends and see what happens. -
I'm am so sorry your are going through something like this. I dont have any advice but I'm glad you found the board, and have some sort of outlet. I dont know what you'll choose to do, but I will pray for you. I'm again so sorry
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Hey Soon_tobex, I havent read every page of this conversation, Now this is coming from a fairly successful (headed on a nice bath), 27 year old, married 3 years. Now for me when we (wife and I) had issues when I felt as though I was alone and I was saying the same things over and over, I left my house. Well actually I thought she said she was going to lock me out, so I went home and took a few days worth of clothes, and stayed at a friends house. Well anyway, when she got home, and realized I was gone, things got "real" really fast! she really understood how upset I was and how I was feeling, and that's when we both started actually listening. So I'm not saying leave your house, but what I am saying is something drastic must happen for her to see. You might want to start making your wife more independent cause I'm guessing you pay the bills, and take of everything else around the house that comes out of the pocket. Cause it sounds like you might be a little fed up. Good Luck!
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Remember ex's are ex's for a reason! So just make sure you think things through