Cindy

If the men you associate with all prefer beauty over brains, you're clearly not mixing with the right circles. The other posters are right about going to literary events, cultural activities, etc. -- you're much more likely to find some worthwhile men at those events, mainly because such places generally don't attract meat heads. There are also Web sites like link removed that bring together brainy people. If you look hard enough, opportunities to find good men are out there.