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  1. Altruist
    If you brush well the previous night then very little plague builds up. You only have to rinse your mouth the next morning...refreshing smell + you save your gums.
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    Its only a matter of time. You'll find someone. I admire you for taking your time and not settling for second best. I'm sure you look great.
  3. Altruist
    ...and so does drinking too much hot tea.
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    NO point in brushing in the morning if you've brushed them just before going to bed. Its overkill. Garlic really gives bad breath though.
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    I'd give anything to have a pot belly for a while but my crazy metabolism ensurs that I remain ripped out and with an 8-pack all the time.
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    Yes, looks don't matter that much to women.
  7. Altruist
    OP, if you are the intellectual type, you could have a picnic date. That way you will have more time and space with your date to discuss some intellectually stimulating topics.
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    He probably lacks the confidence to express his feelings for you. Why don't you take the initiative?
  9. Altruist
    You don't have to make it sound like a date. Just invite him to grab lunch with you from time to time. I'm sure as he gets more comfortable with the idea of the two of you spending time out together he will muster the courage to ask you out.
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    I agree. There is no need to be embarrassed about telling him what makes you feel good. If you extrapolate this into the future you might see yourself having to fake org**ms.
  11. Altruist
    Thanks a lot for the insight Khollest. I'm sorry you had o go through such a lonely childhood. Your experiences are quite different from the norm which may reinforce what some previous posts suggested: that there is also a genetic influence associated with shyness (although I think yours is more of introversion). In my opinion, introversion can be genetically predisposed and is strongly corelated with high IQ ( Wikipedia) as in your case. On the other hand you may have become withdrawn as a defence mechanism by your subconscious to protect you from the pain of having to rely on your mother's limited attention. Your subconscious adjusted so that you could internalize most of your feelings and channel them towards a stronger cognitive ability. I think its almost analogous to the example I gave in one of my responses above where I mentioned that there was a guy who became shy and introverted after being chastised continually by his mother for being the home clown. Introverts find it hard to quickly pick up subtle and sometimes even overt signals from others as evidenced by the examples you gave. What's your social life like now? I wish you the best in your social interactions
  12. Altruist
    At nineteen?
  13. Altruist
    Hmmm, maybe you wronged her some time in the past and the fact that you don't recognize or acknowledge that can be the source of the resentmenty. SHe's probably just holding a grudge and thinking that you are insensitive. Try and think back to the time that the lack of sexual interest started and see if there was any conflict at that time. I doubt that it is being caused by your overtly 'nice' demeanour. However you could tone down on being nice so that you don't come accross as 'suffocating'.
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    The stats are true though.
  15. Altruist
    What kind of a guy is he who can't take such hints? He sounds egotistic to me. For the record, how old is he?
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    Yes, get course guides for all the courses that you are taking (for your future exams) start reading up on all the topics before they have been covered. I remember when I was still in school I was always reading up to two or three years ahead. When a topic was covered in class, I would know everything about it and so it was like revision. I even had time to assist senior students with their assignments! You could try doing the same. If you have access to past exam papers, look through them and try to answer the questions. That will give you a feel of the exam. For now, since the exams are near what you need is a 'crash program'. It's going to depend on your learning style. This is what worked 100% for me and might also work for you: I first take a very small notebook (usually A7 size) and summarize the main points of each chapter into 1 page. At the end of it I usually have less than ten tiny pages to study which I can easily read through about ten times until I remember everything in there. Its also important to do what works for you. For instance, most study experts advise against reading on the day of the exams. I have been able to pass extremely well after reading right up to the last few minutes before an exam. Hope this helps you.
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    I still think its a shame to reduce such beautiful, God-given assets- especially if its done for aesthetic reasons. As one contributor said, maybe its justified in the forties when one has had kids and breastfed them. At that stage, coupled with menopause, the bones in the spinal region are likely to be getting weak and reducing the load on the back by having a reduction might then be justified (IMO).
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    I'd never thought of that. Hope the anxiety won't lead to another problem - a 'shrinker'. Taking a buddy sounds like a great idea. I'll certainly do that. LOL, I almost choked on a sausage when I read that one BellaDonnaimage removed. Taking grandma would certainly kill all the sexual tension - but she might get cardiac arrest because she's very conservative and and does not believe in 'showing flesh'. Not a chance. Absolutely not turned on by men. In any case the saunas are strictly unisex. Hmm, wouldn't do much good. I'd still 'get up' . Lol, too funny! Thanks all for your advise so far!
  19. Altruist
    I'm dead serious. Musculo-skeletotropism or something like that. Google search or read some medical journals. The body always readjusts to any change such that the final state is a state of equilibrium.
  20. Altruist
    lol..that's a good suggestion. It will work...except when getting up to leave.
  21. Altruist
    I think the human body has a wonderful way of adjusting to whatever natural load is on it. The bodies of those with big breasts adjust naturally, especially in the spinal region.
  22. Altruist
    Probably, but it still sounds embarrasing though. HOw do the experienced 'saunites' handle this?
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    After hearing the health benefits of spending time in a sauna I would like to try it soon. The problem is that the only saunas available where I am are unisex and there exists my problem: fear of getting a boner in a sauna filled with women. To those who frequent saunas what are your experiences? I would be terribly embarrassed if it occurred to me. How can I 'keep it in check?' as it were?
  24. Altruist
    SAY NO TO BREAST REDUCTION. BIG BREASTS ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! How I wish more women would realise that.
  25. Altruist
    I agree with most of the advice that you've been getting. Don't try to restrict her. If she openly flirts with other guys and you can't take it, its best to let go early on in the relationship.
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