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100 ways to fall out of LOVE. FALL IN LOVE AGAIN WITH SOMEONE ELSE This is worth 100 ways. Time apart and getting used to being apart but the above statement is what will help

I think cheating in a well built and long term (3 years onwards) relationship is done so the person cheating can feel that they have the ability to be attractive in that way to another person and to feel taht excitment of sleeping with someone knew...difficult situation. Try not to do it again...just imagine if your bf did that to you...how would you feel. anyway you seem to be blessed to have such an amazing relationship after 7 years....kepp it going Luck

Only 1 thing to say...meet someone else, when you do, you will have a crazy new persepective

In a relationship for 5 years...she broke up with me, we were so in love, i guess i loved her more than she loved me. How do i find a girl that i connect with, its seems so hard, i obviously compare in some to my ex but i also ensure that i accept them for who they are. But its been 1 year since we broke up and i havn't found any one that can even compare to the girl i loved. I try not too compare but there are certain looks and personality i look for and hav't found that yet Can anyone help me

We have been broken up for 10 months now. I feel that she is being very rude...and she knows that she is treating me badly. Will she ever show me any attention again. i thought she was the one...i have been heart broken but i still am enjoying my life now. I go out, ive been dating etc. Its just hard when i see her and she ignores me. It enters my mind and makes me feel that if the girl who loved me so much once can be like that, there must be something wrong with me I really appreciate this help...its amazing to knoe that other people care...unlike her

5 year relationship...bad breakup...i have tried to call her and she is always busy and says she will call be back but never does. When i see her out she moves away from me...never comes up to me...if i sday hi she sayd hi and wlaks away. She has a new BF but he is leaving to go back to QLD in 3 months...they have been going out for 4 months. How do i talk to her again? She is hurting me so much, how can it turn out like this after 5 amazing years. I have tried to call her/write letters at least 3 times over the last 4 months but no reply. Do i just drop it and leave it up to her

Ive known this girl for a few weeks. We always see eachother out and get along really well, you could call it chemistry and comfortability. The amount of energy that this girl gives off is amaizng. She is very deep, alternative and very smart and careing person. She always smiles and it kinda makes me feel good as i smile back at her. However, i don't find her so attractive. The thing is, it is her personality that makes her more attractive and to get along so well with a girl you just met (always laughing, never uncomfortable etc) always makes you think. We were togethr the other week when we were out separately (as is with friends, not out together). Ive seen her once since then and i know she really likes me, but for some reason the physical attraction isn't there so much for me. Mind you, going out with her alone was great, we got along really well and she is such an amazing person, its just im not so so attracted to her. We were very intimate when we saw eachother, and im scared that im going to hurt her if i slow things down or i say something. The thing is i dont know what to say to her. I know she wants to go out again cos she asked. Its always flattering when you know someonw likes you but for some reason my attraction for her isn't there, which sux cos we get along so well ( her energy is just so facinating) Please someone tell me how to tell her i dont feel the same. Or Should i tell her to slow things down, but doesn't that mean i dont like her and she may take. I know people are going to say that looks isn't everything...but i would n't be thinking about it if it didn't worry me I had a GF for 4 years, we broke up about 10 months ago. Thanx

The thing is...if your meant for eachother, it shouldn't make a *** all diff who asks who out. It really shits me when people break down such irrelevant issues. When a girl asks me out it makes it more exciting knowing she is interested

I had something too special to just ignore her. She for some reason cant talk to me or finds it uncomfortable to talk to me. How 4 years we lived together for 2 years. Every second weekend there a bday parties that i know ill see her at. i get so nervous. I want to see her 1 on 1 and i havnt for a while. I know it just seem so werid and unatural to start an amziong convo at someones bday. I know that the only way i can get the ball rolling is to see her 1 on 1. But she seems to not want to do anything with me. She is very invilved with her new BF Hekp

Hey...sorry to hear about the pain your going through. I went through the exact same thing or very similar. I broke up with GF of 5 years almost 8 months ago (and *** it seems like yesterday). As superficial as it sounds, over time you will learn to not hurt as much, you just have to get used to not being with her. The simple fact is you have become addicted to a person (part of love), eventually you will get used to the addiction not being there and just like a cigi, youl always crave it, but not as bad as the first day week month etc I bought a Self Help book called "Letting GO" by DR Zev Wanderer and Tracy Cabot. This book has the answers to all of your questions. Amazing Book I too spent hours deciding weather to call her. I used to resight how i would talk to her, make up dialogue when she wasn't even there. I though i was going crazy, but this book even said that it is common to resight dialogue. Go out a try new things, places, bars, etc. Meet new people. Its amazing to meet a new girl for the 1st time and to know she likes you. What ever you did to make her br8 up with you was wrong. But nothin is more wrong than to end a relationship, nothin worse can be done. Just know everyone deserves to be loved. If it doesn't work out you will love again, because you have the most important characteristic a person can have that makes a relationship work: The ability to Love a Woman

Well my ex GF broke up with me about 11 1/2 months ago. We had a bad couple of months towards the end of our relationship and there were a lot of trusting issues that went wrong. I did something i shouldn't of... (as in joke to her friend that i wont her). This Got back to her which started a chain reaction about other trusting issues. We were together for 4 1/2 years, we were madly in love and did everything together. A month after our beakup she was with a friend of mine...not such a close friend, but a friend. That only lasted about 3 weeks but i was torn apart and she knew that. But she defended herself by saying "at least we are not together". After that we trie to start a friendship, but my feelingd were stronger than hers, and it seemed that she was holding back which made me hurt and i asked her why. We got into fights and as a result we had a break for a bout a month. Then she had a new BF, and they have been going out since. It has been about 3 months since i spoke to her, and its hard cos i see her out always and she kinda ignores me or just says hi...never starting a convo. Im always asking her how she is...what she is doind...she finishes with her answer and chooses not to continue the conversation whcih make it really uncomfortable. I can't stop thinking about her and how she hasn't called me or asked to see me. From the day she broke up with me, i have made all the effort, she act as if she never had love for me (but we were madly in love and built a life together which has made it tough for me). I know she has a BF now and that may make her feel some sort of guilt when it comes to me but i just wont to be in her life. I dont know what to do...do i call her again and ask to see her. I have written her letters asking for her to see me when she is ready, but i dont get any replies. How do i get it out of my head How do i start a friendship withe her. I am scared that if we see eachother my emotions will run crazy and my feelings will be even stronger but i think im willing to take the risk. Do i stop the effort and wair for her. I have kinda tried that cos for about 2 months i didn't contact her. The last 3 weeks i have written letters and Ph messaged her that i would love to see her. Or do i stop altogether. Please Help ME.

if you loved eachother in the last...there is no reason why love cant blossom again. If you loved him and he loved you than there is no reason why you shouldn't tell him what you feel At least youll know rather than not. He will understand you better than if you told a stranger you loved him. He will react in a better and more understanding way

I broke up with my GF of 5 years about 8 months ago. It wasn't a good breakup at all...in fact both our hearts were broken. She had a lot issues with me and how to trust me. I guess i did some things wrong (for the record it was not cheating, but other trustinf issues) and hurt her. When we broke up she did something that ripped my heart out...not going to go into it, but it hurt and she new it. So all in all, the end of our relationship wasn't good. We hurt eachother and for some reason i think it has influenced the way we are now. When we were going out for 5 years, we had the most amazing and special love for eachother. Such a connection and i thought she was the one. Now when i do see her (its hard cos she is in the same cirlce of friends) she ignores me, basically shows me no attention what so ever. It has been 8 months and i have tried everything to work on a friendship. We havn't gone out 1 on 1 since we broke up. I have seen her 1 on 1 only when she hurt me when we broke up. Long time ago, so it feels like times running out (growing apart) She has a new BF, and that doesn't bother me much, but the fact that we shared something so special and now she can't even say hi to me kills me. What should i do. I am thinking about it a lot. I have gotten over her coming back to me, but now its something else. Why doesn't she show me any care at all. I have written her a letters asking why she is the way she is, but she doesn't reply. When i see her out she doesn't come up to me. But i know she knows im there cos we catch eachothers eye and sometimes i see her looking at me. Im always the mature one who goes up to her and says hi, but its still very uncomfortable (only cos she makes it that way). What im trying to say. WILL I EVER BE FRIENDS WITH MY EX LOVER.