whitenoise

about2... at the risk of sounding harsh, why in the heck are you staying with someone who knows how you feel about something, how important it is to you and REFUSES to negotiate a solution to keep you happy? From what I have read of your plight you have told her how you feel and by not having sex with you she has given her answer. You can't make her do something she doesn't want to and nagging her about your lack of sex life is only driving a wedge deeper between you two ladies. If the relationship is emotionally fulfilling, stay with her but find a PYT to satisfy your sexual needs and keep your mouth shut about it or leave.