Jump to content

Portage

Platinum Member
  • Posts

    1,832
  • Joined

  • Days Won

    3

Everything posted by Portage

  1. Hmmmm. She sounds a little scattered if you don't mind me saying so, maybe if you are looking to get some dates under your belt, just doesn't sound like a future 50/50 partner. However, if it is just for a fun time i see no harm in it. I've also learned that going with your gut has always worked out for me in the long run.
  2. You're only human, can't beat yourself up for having an urge and wanting some satisfaction. I'd definitely get myself tested in your situation. Maybe you could work on bringing more people into your world. Having a friend or two always leads to networking and getting more involved in the real world. just my two Canadian cents.
  3. I truly haven't the foggiest notion. after one failed marriage i deem it safe to never go down that path again...maybe i'll have a roomie with benefits down the road?? Maybe not romantic BUT practical. Besides a piece of paper means nothing if the connection fades.
  4. the toilet seat is always down!!! OH almost forgot, and there is always toilet paper hanging on the roll and backup on the shelf within reach. My version of heaven.
  5. Sounds like there is definite interest from her end. You can usually tell when someone feels the chemistry, i think you feel it and just need that little bit of reassurance. GOOD JOB! I agree with LS, grab her number next time and i'm sure it will be a positive outcome.
  6. I second the motion. People know what they need to do or not do. Having someone beat them down will just make them turn in the other direction out of spite. Live and let live.
  7. Sounds like there could be some potential chemistry. Touch his arm lightly next time you both are joking around, see what his reaction is to this. Flirting with him will be a clear indicator to move things forward.
  8. Sorry, he is selfish beyond belief. Leave him before you waste anymore of your precious time. It is about give and take.
  9. ^ YUM I'm glad you didn't throw strips of bacon on that turkey sandwhich. Food can definitely (at times) turn my crank more....you are on Vandgsmom & i'll post the results. *puts turkey and honey mustard on list before next wild weekend*
  10. Geez i must be missing out. I've never once cried during sex. *scratches head and wonders if i've been doing something wrong all these years*
  11. Definitely Marvin Gaye - Sexual Healing
  12. Makes me want to move to Edo and study poetry.
  13. I think it is good to have a certain amount of shyness. Because when you do get through a difficult situation, does it not make you appreciate it even more? I have a certain amount of shyness when confronting something/someone i'm not comfortable with. But as i get older i look at it as a challenge & reward myself with a pat on the back. The exhiliration of a job well done keeps your shyness in check. Or at least try and see it in that light. Good Luck
  14. Portage

    Tummy pic

    So nice to get as many pics in your state as possible. I wish i'd had more snapped. Your belly looks beautiful
  15. This is part of human nature. It happens to us all, and we are all guilty of reciprocating to a certain point. The honeymoon stage always make you a bit giddy in the beginning, don't worry, he'll come crashing back down to planet earth soon enough. I would give Jack a little distance and then maybe discuss your feelings. He may be so ga-ga he hasn't the foggiest notion on your thoughts. Be kind to the love crazed (lol), honesty is your best policy. Your turn will soon follow
  16. Wow! Well written. It reminds me of my life. Thought provoking.
  17. Tulips, carnations, maybe a couple of pink roses. I always like a variety. Makes it a little more interesting. Just walk in and pick what you think she'd like. Can't go wrong.
  18. That jar thing alone will make her putty in your hands. Sounds very romantic. Go get her tiger. PS - maybe something other than roses? They are just so common. Anything with a mix of color would be nice
  19. PS - I used to volunteer at the animal shelter. I'd walk dogs, hard to not get emotional over some of the stories...but, not only are you helping out man's (or woman in their 30's) best friends you get some rather studly animal control men or male dog lovers coming through the doors. Something to think about.
  20. I find it is much more difficult to make friends in your 30's. Most people already have their own little network. Since my best friend moved a couple hours away i've had to be a wee bit more social. I've consciously put myself out there a bit more with people at work, gym, and just in general. I tend to be a bit of a loner, but, i too, need that interaction. Very important to get out into that land of the living. Even if you don't feel it, you need to force yourself
  21. Yes! I hear you, i'm just waiting to be served myself. Mine is also uncontested, totally surreal, it makes you feel like a new person. I just feel so anxious and i'm having trouble sleeping at night waiting for it to be finalized. When you're ready for change WHO WANTS TO WAIT?? Congrats, and enjoy your new found singleness
×
×
  • Create New...