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  1. wayner427
    I think she may have said that becuase it will help your pride to know that you were the one to initiate the first kiss. For the first kiss, you would rather be the one to initiate than her right? As for asking her to be your girlfriend, I say go for it. From what you've said, it seems like that's where it's heading.
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    That's some very good insight lifestream. Great poem too. I'm still recovering from heartbreak too and that helps a bit. craigm, I agree that even though you're young, it still hurts a great deal, and it hurts letting go. But I think it does help though that you have a lot of experiences to look forward to. Try to stay strong and look to other fun activities that you enjoy to occupy your mind.
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    I totally agree with karvala that starting NC for the wrong reasons is okay because hopefully it'll work out for the right reasons later on.
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    I think you and her need some time to move on before friendship can occur. Try to get your mind off of it all by doing things that you enjoy that don't involve her. Trying to be friends immediately after a breakup is very rare in my opinion. You need to give it a lot more time.
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    *Dream what you want to dream.Go where you want to go.Be what you want to be.Because you only have one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. I wish I could figure all this out for myself. Great feel good post.
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    Wow, that's what I've been doing and I didn't really put it in that perspective. I kind of talk to her like it's nothing. I feel nothing, but never thought of it as... one day, my ex will be just like my former ex.
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    I download a tv series to watch when I'm home alone. This helps get my mind off of the ex. Not very productive though.. I'm currently watching Heroes.
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    Thanks for this Parsley! I've never heard of Reindeer Section until now, and I see that the singer is also the one that sings for Snow Patrol, and I think they're great.
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    wishiknew, It has been about a month for me.. and about 2 weeks since I last contacted her. I have felt myself getting a little better, as long as I can keep myself occupied. I've been through this before as well, and it does get better. For me, I do think that in order to completely get over her and stop thinking about her, I'd have to meet that someone special once again.. I wish you the best of luck as well.
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    I have been doing okay keeping myself occupied during the day lately.. but when I'm home at night alone, I get pretty sad. I keep thinking about her and what she's doing right now. I think about whether she even thinks about me at all ever. I shouldn't be having these thoughts.. It's really late now, almost morning.. I just can't get her off my mind right now for some reason. This is more of a rant, since none of my friends are online for me to talk to. I'm sure they're sick of me complaining to them, but they have been so great. I know I need to look elsewhere for happiness.. being in a relationship with someone I really like shouldn't be the only way, but I just feel that really is the only way for me to be truly happy. *sigh*
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    If you don't look at them or think about them, I would go ahead and just keep them. It might be something you'd want to look back in the future when you're totally over her.
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    I totally agree with you Benson. I guess things could be almost the same, but I would always have the thought of the breakup in the back of my mind. I think it really depends on how the breakup occurred though. I've thought this through before, but not for long. I don't like to dwell on the thought of getting back together even though a large part of me would want that.
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    i went bowling with some friends yesterday, and i had a lot of fun.. but right when I get back home, the pain begins, and i can't help but miss her and feel lonely. this is pretty frustrating! I just want to be able to talk to her like we used to...
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    No i haven't. I just read a summary on it and it sounds interesting. I'll go watch it. Thanks.
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    That sure gives me a lot of hope. I'm looking forward to my routine.. even though it may take some will power to get off my lazy butt. As for understanding my breakup, I really don't think I ever will. If you want, you can look at my previous thread to see how the breakup occurred and see if you can figure it out.
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    Thanks for all the help and support. I just woke up, and everytime I do on Sat or Sun morning.. I just mope about her while I'm in bed before I actually get up. I need to stop and think of some morning routine to get me out of bed and going. For after work, I'm thinking about making a routine where I either go to the bookstore for an hour or go workout for an hour. Just trying to find something that I can really get into. Golf is a good idea too.. haven't played in awhile though. maybe I'll start going to the driving range.
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    The thing that went wrong was so petty.. and I still don't fully understand it. I've analyzed the breakup for weeks.. and I still don't get it. I just need to force myself to go enjoy activities to get my mind off of it all. Not sure if this works, but my friend told me that everytime I start thinking about something that makes me sad, to count to 10.
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    I think it's a good idea to work on being independent. You would be putting yourself in a really tough situation to depend on your ex that's going to be in another country for awhile, especially with limited contact. It would be great if yall ended up back together when he comes back, but I would not rely on that. A lot can happen in a few years.
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    I'll look into that. Thanks.
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    great lyrics. I'm sure that sums up how a lot of people feel here, including myself
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    It's been almost a month since the breakup, and I'm still missing her like crazy. I'm just sitting here staring into my monitor, and I can't get my mind off of her. I can't get myself to do anything.. I tried playing video games, but that lasted like a minute. I just can't seem to enjoy anything. I need to just get over her and look forward, but I can't.
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    I'm having the same problem. I'm having a very difficult time accepting the situation and being at peace. At times, I feel okay, but other times, the thought of it all really overwhelms me and I feel really helpless. I'm sure that over time, the feeling okay periods last longer and longer. I think the key is to stay positive about the future, which has always been a difficult thing for me.
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    For me, I was paranoid of liking a girl a lot because I've been burned in the past.. I got to that point, where I knew I didn't want to lose her. Then that stage passed, and I became really comfortable and entrusted all my feelings with her... then bam... that's when it all of a sudden ended.. then I realize again why I was so paranoid before all over again. *sigh*
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    That's exactly how I feel right now.. It's all very tough for me to understand.
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    I feel exactly how yall feel.. I just hope it gets better soon. There wasn't really anything I could have done to prevent this breakup though. The reason she had was a very stupid one.. not even sure if it was the real reason. Before that, everything was fine and dandy.. Just hurts so bad because I keep wondering how she's doing, and she seems to be doing really well without me. The pain lingers throughout the day, no matter what I'm doing. I can be having fun, and the thought of her will still surface and make me sad. The worst is waking up each morning. For some reason, that's when it hits and hurts the most. I try to stay positive, but I'm not very good at doing so..
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