it all depends on you.. me personally i wouldnt.. if it was done once to you it will be done again.. im talking from experience i excepted my x wife after she did me dirty.. i guess because the love we onced shared and the fact we had so much history i decided well lets try again..but the games,confusion,lies was still happening.. besides a person is made a EX for a reason. if you chose to go threw that emotinal roller coaster i wish you the best.. just dont take your partner back if your wounds arent healed or if your just always going to hold that against your mate..