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  1. addictedblue
    feels great on the neck, that area under the neck but above the boobs, around the ears, definitely on the boobs and nipples too
  2. addictedblue
    one time when i was at a school dance i saw this couple making out and both their eyes were wide open...it was so weird. maybe he doesn't realize that he's supposed to close them?
  3. addictedblue
    you're not going to what i'm about to say, but, harsh as it is, if you don't want to go through the trouble of moving or applying for residency and don't have the money i'd advise you to just be practical about this and realize it won't work and just move on. it'll hurt but you'll be able to find a guy who you can see all the time. the guy in the US is not the only guy you can ever love, much as it seems right now. unless at your age you truly believe this guy is the only one you'll ever love then go for it.
  4. addictedblue
    if you like her personality and mannerisms and whatnot then who cares how mature she is. she's in college isn't she? by deciding not to go for it on the basis of 'shes not mature enough' you may miss out on many great times you may share with her.
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  6. addictedblue
    sounds awesome. go with the roses.
  7. addictedblue
    i'm a girl and i'd love that!! her knowing you care enough to do that is priceless, forget the money, its worth it!!
  8. addictedblue
    anyone ever tried...in a pool? is that even possible? it'd be interesting. hmm more interesting places - on a boat in the ocean in the middle of the night when its cool, the top of a mountain, my moms bed (
  9. addictedblue
    i'm going to be totally honest with you and just say that's weird. maybe its because you're only 17. but honestly why don't you want to have sex....ever? you never said why. i don't get it. if you aren't asexual than i see no reason why not. sex is the physically closest you can get to another person, and when you fall in love with someone my guess is that you will most likely want to have sex with them. if not, well, you're an outlier.
  10. addictedblue
    how can you girls both feel like you're straight if you're dating each other?? if the girl does all the same things that a guy does to you - make you laugh, you look forward to see her, get nervous sometimes, get horny with her, are together all the time on dates, etc (which is what i think constitutues dating someone) - then i guess if both a girl and a guy can do this to you you must be bi.
  11. addictedblue
    i'm confused as to how you guys broke up. you said you never cheated so what made it obvious to her that you weren't totally committed?
  12. addictedblue
    this question has come up on this site quite often. i've never been in that situation but here's what i think. you said yourself you get sick and he needs help getting himself off. just because he enjoys looking at porn stars doesn't mean he has any desire to actually be with the woman he's looking at over you. it just gets him horny and he likes it. he married you didn't he?? he loves you. loving someone means you love everything including the persons body. i'm sure you read magazines and see hanes ads in there, doesn't mean you'd prefer doing that guy as opposed to your husband. so i definitely don't think the fact that he looks at porn would make him cheat on you or not love you. every guy does it seems, to me its weird when guys don't. hope i helped somehow.
  13. addictedblue
    i know what you're talking about with the legal thing. i've liked him for awhile but decided not to do anything until i turn 18 because then its totally legal. even if you don't wait til she's 18, relationships aren't illegal, sex is. and even then its only illegal if she were to sue you or something or if her parents didn't like it. and i know what you mean by being scared of what people might think. but to be honest think of all the crazy things that happen. look at the age gap relationships threads and you see stuff like 19 and 45 i mean 17 and 22 really isn't that big of a deal. people will get over it, you don't want to let their opinions stop you from having a really great relationship with someone you care for.
  14. addictedblue
    stop whining on enotalone and go do something about it.
  15. addictedblue
    i'm an 18 year old girl (well in 2 weeks anyway) and like a guy who is 23, so we're in the same boat. i'm the younger one thinking is he too old?? is it wrong? etc but we get along so well and have so much fun together that the fact that we're 5 1/2 years apart isn't that relevant. my advice is to go for it. i believe in soulmates and yours might happen to be a bit younger, doesn't mean you should pass her up!
  16. addictedblue
    depends on how much you like her! if she's that easy to forget than don't bother, but if you can't get her off your mind by all means do!
  17. addictedblue
    haha there's no way you'll make your goal with an attitude like that. i won't bother rewriting what other people wrote, just read their advice
  18. addictedblue
    anything that is centered around an interest you have. say you like bowling, you could sign up for a co-ed bowling league and meet a lot of people (and women especially) who already share one of your interests! there's a lot of things that you could do that appeals to you - cooking classes, volunteer work, karate, anything. when you meet someone who you already have a common ground with and have a reason to see all the time you'll most likely find a girl. good luck
  19. addictedblue
    well go with your gut. if you think she's interesting continue talking, make her laugh, ask her out or whatever. if you don't really care one way or the other about her don't bother. seems to me like you do care, so i'd say, keep talking, you'll bring her old (better) self back and you might find a girlfriend!
  20. addictedblue
    this is just my thought. you posted this because you wanted opinions so here's mine. i think there is a good possibility that he may be a bit interested, but as far as dating or a relationship probably not. he's a guy, and if wanted you to entertain him at 2 AM then you aren't going to go over there and play scrabble, i can tell you that. he may not seem like that kind of guy or whatever but what he said makes it very probable that he just wanted a hook-up. i could be totally wrong but that's just what i think.
  21. addictedblue
    i know exactly what you mean! i'm 17, and in the past i had a crush on the father of the little boy i used to babysit for, a guy who was 43!!! he was married and everything, but i was convinced both parents were in their late 20s, i had no idea he was so old, i thought i was crushing on a 28 year old. anyway i had a crush on an english teacher in 10th grade and my recent one is 23. that isn't SOO bad so i'm probably going to act on it. but i understand your problem. older guys are just so much more mature, like everyone said already, they seem more of a catch than a guy our age. there are guys our age that are mature and worth dating but they're all taken! its frustrating. just chill, you'll find someone who is a bit closer. and if not, well, you're almost 18 by now, so you can eventually date anyone you want. for some reason 17 seems sooo much younger than being 18.
  22. addictedblue
    this little closet-sized office at my work that belongs to the boss. with the boss. haha.
  23. addictedblue
    as everyone else said you aren't fat at all. you're just nervous around him is all. when you get to know him better it'll go away. imagine if girls were nervous to eat in front of their husbands! they'd die. the whole nervousness thing goes away.
  24. addictedblue
    generally, i think, people don't hurt people that they love. not deliberatly anyway. do you know if whatever he does/did to hurt you was on purpose or was it just careless thinking due to his personality? i know saying the ordinary advice "get over him" is pointless, so in this case i think your best bet is to try and make yourself less vulnerable, somehow. if he has hurt you so many times you've got to have started building up some sort of resistance by now right? also, and this is another thing, make sure he knows when he has hurt you. i've made that mistake in the past. if you don't tell someone you're mad for something they did, they don't know it was wrong, so they just do it again, not to hurt you on purpose but because they didn't know it hurt you. i dated someone who would blow off dates all the time and i'd be like "oh its fine, i don't care!" when i really really did care. make sure you aren't hiding the feelings. if he knows he's hurting you but still does it then there is something wrong and he doesn't love you. i don't think thats the case though.
  25. addictedblue
    i'm white. i'm sure it isn't any easier than being brown. get real.
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