evening_light
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My two cents.... When an ex leaves, why would you take them back.... Can you trust them again? Are you willing to forget about the past? Are you still hurting? And if you take them back ( why?) can you forgive them... Come on!!...after all the hurting why would you subject yourself to more pain...you're dignity is worth much more... And in time you''ll feel much better and you''ll meet someone that deserves you!!
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Making things worse - PLEASE HELP!
evening_light replied to theproman23's topic in Trust and Relationships
Start listening to your girlfriend when she talks..... In life it's not always about ourself....if you care about her, do something... Are you a happy person? if you are...try to make her happy! -
lunatic, you see a person once and your afraid to tell that their not right for you?? Couple of things....because it's your first encounter, forget about her....you don't have to be mister gentleman ( sorry ladies) Now because you have some class.....you will tell her that she is a very nice person but you don't have a "spark' or "butterflies" for her and that it was nice meeting her..... Don't lead her on!!
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Iggy5129, don't feel bad you're blessed with good fortune.. You're envious of your guy, but he's dealing with the real world...ok, so you don't have to worry about your future...( mom and dad are there for you) Right now, your like an athlete making 10,000 dollars a year but with a 20 million dollar sponsorship....what's the motivation? Even though your parents are financially supporting you, do something worthwhile, find a part time job ( and I mean, really look for one...) help your fellow students with their homework, cook a meal, etc...there are endless things you can do without money...and maybe in time you will start to feel good about yourself.
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Why would he say yes if he doesn't want to????????
evening_light replied to Cindersam's topic in Getting Back Together
What if he doesn't respond? Now what? You'll be wondering if he got your e-mail, is his computer broken, did he delete it, did I say something wrong...etc ( you get my point) The time he doesn't respond, you'll be a "wreck" ( a little more than you are right now ) Don't add more stress to your life... I say try to forget about him ( I know, I know...) but you have to.. -
Zuport1, I'm impressed to the way you responded to the posts... There is some light at the end of the tunnel....take some time to reflect and maybe with time and some self improvement, you guys can be together someday... Good luck E.L.
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And yet because you were busy working, or whatever!!....couldn't even go for 1 hour....while she was recovering!! Now your the victim?? Don't you even dare tell her you "love her"...
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Sometimes when we say "nothing", we don't have to worry about what was "said".....
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kimber271, sorry your hurting, If you want to send a powerful message, send "nothing"...Your actions will speak louder than words...just leave What would you tell him, that he doesn't know.....from what I'm reading, he has no respect for you....does he deserve an explanation? Have no regret leaving this "bum" ( by the way, I've read your other thread)
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WHOO!!! Think I am 99.5% healed
evening_light replied to betrayedgirl's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
You are so right! Many people keep them, for whatever reasons, in case, trying to keep some memories, but doing the shredding did accelerate your healing....good for you!! -
I think we all need a group hug here...
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Why would you apologise to her at this stage...she was a good friend, let it be... What you are doing is instigating an apology to her, in response of an answer of why she left you....I still sense some resentment...
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Your "ego" took a hit here...and now your upset because she broke off with you first.... From what I'm reading, it seems you were never serious with her, wanted the single life plus fringe benefits on the side... I'd say, forget about her for now, what would you say in your letter that would convince her of your words...
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Then you said this... What if she doesn't answer?.....or she responds that's it's really over? I don't think you need more turmoil right now....
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My friend, what is a relationship......it's 50/50.....not 90/10 ( at best) like your doing.... She is draining you mentally, physically, that's not healthy....and your in the medical field!!!! She has already pulled the trigger, now you want to see the bullet....?? Have you tried this strategy.....it's called "let her go"....forget all your pass analogies....it's not working.. You see, your ex is still there because of "guilt"....stop confessing your love, your admiration, her beauty ...etc...( your putting her on a pedestal ) Right now your "broken heart" is doing all the "talking" instead of your "head" doing all the "listening"
