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  1. Mrs Elliott Smith
    either way, you're still going to lose what you got. you marry him, he'll one day age and his appearance will change (as with everyone) . . . on the flip side, when he gets older, he'll become impotent. wait, there's always viagra! i can't choose because my #1 standard is that he treats me with respect.
  2. Mrs Elliott Smith
    I'm not generalizing......... But my boyfriend doesn't know what the hell I'm talking about half the time (when I do talk about my feelings/emotions). I know this for a fact, because he admitted it many times in the past lol But all men are different. Look at some of the men here on ENA!
  3. Mrs Elliott Smith
    No offense, but everyone, men and women, will always find someone who is more physically attrative than their significant others. Let me ask you: Do you think your boyfriend is this hottest man you're ever seen? You need to look past these things, because relationships should be MUCH MORE than worrying about who your boyfriend thinks is more attractive than you. Sounds like you need to get some help with your self-esteem issue. No offense.
  4. Mrs Elliott Smith
    I think you should focus your energy on your father, first. He needs love and support, especially now since he was just diagnosed. And make sure that you give that to him before you start worrying about seeing a psychologist to help your emotional turmoil. Just my opinion.
  5. Mrs Elliott Smith
    If it were me, I wouldn't give him the time of day. I wouldn't talk to him, look at him, or deal with him altogether. But I'd also assume a cocky attitude when near him... you know, that "I'm too good to talk to you" type of attitude. LOL! I'm not usually like that, though, but that's what I'd do. Just to make him feel like a little peon (sp?).
  6. Mrs Elliott Smith
    You're getting numb. You might be unconsciously doing this to yourself (not allowing yourself to be annoyed by certain things) just so you don't have to go through the pain. I'm 26 now. When I was younger, EVERYTHING used to bother me. My temper came on fast, and was mind-blowingly hot. Nowadays, I still get angry from time to time, and I still worry about some things to the point of mental exhaustion-- but as I'm getting older, I'm learning that reacting in such ways only makes me worse off. It's just not worth it. I totalled my car 2 years ago. Insurance gave me 5k (big deal, right?). I had to buy a new car, and there is nothing I could have gotten that was reliable AND cheap. So I had to put 5k (for a total of 10k) toward buying a 2001 used car. To top that all off, I was saving all that money I had for something else (plastic surgery LOL) . . . and I couldn't get it done just because I had to spend my money on a new car. I had been saving that money for a year. I don't know why it didn't bother me that much, though. What's wrong with me? LOL If this had happened 5 years ago, I would have FLIPPED OUT.
  7. Mrs Elliott Smith
    My advice: You have plenty of time to live on your own (the rest of your life). Don't get yourself into debt just because you can't wait a extra few months to move out of your house. Be smart about this-- just stick it out at home until you feel financially ready to move out. And on an end note-- good luck, because it's not easy to survive out there
  8. Mrs Elliott Smith
    Is it true hunger, though? I mean, do you feel the physical signs of hunger in your stomach? Or do you just get cravings/the munchies? There's a difference between the two. I eat more usually starting a week before I get my time of the month, and then stop once it comes. I don't eat because I feel hunger, but because I don't know- my brain wants all those comfort foods.
  9. Mrs Elliott Smith
    You should sniff his clothes-- see if it smells like him, or if it smells like someone else.
  10. Mrs Elliott Smith
    If you are both enjoying your time together, then why not spend every day together? However- a problem arises when either one of you start to get bored, or agitated with the other. Then you know you're spending too much time together. Sometimes, people need to be apart for a few days so that they can regain the anticipation to see each other. And, as others have said, some people just need their "alone time." I'm certainly one of them, since I won't see my boyfriend any more than 3 times a week. More than that, and it's too much. 3 days is pushing it some weeks, though LOL
  11. Mrs Elliott Smith
    it looks good, but if i were you i'd add some more contours and highlights to the figure's clothing. and yes, color would be a good option, but not a necessity.
  12. Mrs Elliott Smith
    1. I can write very well 2. I am a very friendly person 3. I am a good student (3.9 cum. gpa in grad school so far, yeah!) 4. I am very sensitive/emotional (which can be both a strenght and a weakness, depending)
  13. Mrs Elliott Smith
    Honestly, I wouldn't put any more attention into this: It's only making you crazy! Hey, it happened, big deal, what are you gonna do. Just move on. And if you have already mentioned the bleeding to him, that's it. Talking to him about it ONCE is enough. There's no need to draw it out. Just relax.
  14. Mrs Elliott Smith
    You gotta find out who these kids' parents are and start getting paid for your services. I have a couple of clients, make $40 an hour, so the money is really good. You could be making good money. But parents will want to know that you're a teacher. And if you're not, it'd make sense to drop the price a little lower.
  15. Mrs Elliott Smith
    I work with children and adults with autism. I have experience working with "typical" students as well. I'm in graduate school now. I'd be more than glad to answer questions for you.
  16. Mrs Elliott Smith
    Did he insert anything inside of you OTHER than his penis? That could do it. Were you wet enough? I've never had this problem, but I would assume that not being wet would cause some nasty friction and maybe bleeding? (Not sure on this one.) Wait, was this the 2nd time you ever had sex (in general, not just with him)? If so, it could've been your hymen-- maybe he didn't quite tear it up the first time lol Oh, and if I were you, I'd say something to him about the bleeding. Be open about it, don't make it like you're trying to hide it from him. Don't act like you're worried or afraid, just say something like, "you were so rough with me last night, I think you made me bleed a little." Make him feel like "the man." LOL!
  17. Mrs Elliott Smith
    My sister's ex-boyfriend took/takes steroids. He is a PSYCHOOOOOOOO. Seriously. He gets really bad bouts of anger. One time, he literally picked her up by her neck, and threw her onto the ground (hard concrete, no less). He also claimed a few times to have seen things that weren't really there (I won't go into detail, but I don't know, maybe he's schizophrenic, I don't know). Steroids will get you into big trouble. They're hard to get off, too, because once you go off, you lose all of the muscle relatively easily. And sticking needles in your arms, legs, and butt is not something anyone could happily do forever.
  18. Mrs Elliott Smith
    My suggestion: Don't get involved with the fact that the other employees are being "bullied." It's not your job to save them- they are adults, you know? They can take care of themselves. Just stay out of it. Especially office gossip. Be yourself when you work with this lady, and do what you gotta do. This is your job, and regardless of whether you plan on staying there or not, you need to be professional.
  19. Mrs Elliott Smith
    Get rid of the Playstation. I'd secretly break it somehow, and not buy him a new one. (Evil, I know.... muahahaha!)
  20. Mrs Elliott Smith
    Being drunk makes you feel more bloated, sick, dizzy, and gross, in my opinion. Also, hang overs BITE! And alcohol doesn't even help with your higher order thinking skills. (hah.) Drugs, in my experince, never made me feel bloated, sick, or dizzy. And being under the influence has made me come upon many intelligent, enlightening ideas. No hangovers, too Not that I'm condoning drug use, though. But if I had to choose between the two . . .
  21. Mrs Elliott Smith
    I would divide the paper up into several sections. Discuss the safety reasons (e.g. you can kill/injure yourself and others, both inside your car and outside of your car/in other cars. Discuss the emotional reasons (e.g. the type of emotional guilt you would feel if you had killed others and harmed them and/or yourself Discuss the financial reasons (e.g. fixing up your messed up car, or getting sued for harming/killing another person Discuss the reasons that will change your life (e.g. going to jail, losing a liscence, etc. Some of the reasons will overlap, though (e.g. going to jail is a life-changing reason, but it's also an emotional reason. I don't know. But I wouldn't just write them all down without any order to them. You should group them somehow, like I did. It will just make your paper more organized and easy-to-read. Just a suggestion, though. I'm sure many ENA posters will trash my post right away, though lol! We all love to do that to each other. How sweet.
  22. Mrs Elliott Smith
    Wow, your voice sounds like Elvis when you're half-awake? Cool LOL If it were me, though, I'd be worrying that she's calling to check up on me (to make sure I'm home and not sleeping at someone else's house lol).
  23. Mrs Elliott Smith
    This is tricky. On the one hand, honesty is valued by most people. On the other hand, some people should just know when to shut their mouthes and refrain from telling a brutal truth. I wouldn't get mad at my boyfriend for being honest with me (in the way that your boyfriend did). But maybe I'd have a little talk with him and help him understand that some things are better left unsaid. Sounds like your boyfriend simply doesn't realize that saying what he said would hurt your feelings. Tell him to think twice about how his resonses will affect you before he lets it all out. But I am curious: After you told him that you couldn't imagine having sex with anyone else besides him, did you ask him how he felt about about having sex with you/other people? (If you asked him, then you got what you wanted, and now you know to just shut your mouth next time.)
  24. Mrs Elliott Smith
    You need to stop thinking in black-and-white terms. You're putting strict labels on yourself and are expecting yourself to act and feel according to those labels only. It's OK to be a little bit of BOTH- it's how most people are. I can so identify with you on the emotions part (how, at one minute you love and care about people, but then the next minute you truly don't give a sh...). I also do this with happiness. One day life is GREAT, but the next day everything in life SUX (even though the conditions haven't changed). I talked to several people about this in the past, and they all told me that this is how many of us are. I wouldn't worry too much about this. But remember that you can't label yourself and then not allow yourself to act according to other labels.
  25. Mrs Elliott Smith
    Some people are perpetual cheaters. Others realize the big mistake that they made after the first time and never do it again. A lot of factors are involved when figuring out how your boyfriend will be, though. In any case, though, if it had happened to me, I wouldn't even give him the benefit of the doubt. Doing it once is enough for me to leave.
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