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hey tired, if you have a MAC i wouldn't be too worried then. A Mac is just as vulnerable as a PC but since its user base is so small, there is not a wide availability of "malware" like there is on a PC. Yah it is still possible, but having a MAC lessens those chances even more. While I personally could easily embed a keylogged into a picture file on a PC... it would take quite a lot of effort on my part to do the same on a MAC. I don't even know if its possible cause im not really familiar with macs in that sense but it would definitely take much much more effort. I would just use an updated virus scanner and I think you should be alright.

hey tired, yes its very possible if you ever opened up any files from him he could have installed a keylogger to your computer and have your keystrokes sent to him remotely. Now that takes a lot of effort and some sneaky planning on his part so I don't think there is a high chance he has done it. He certainly sounds capable since its not too difficult if you are a computer professional. I know a lot of insecure guys that put keyloggers on their gf's computers but it takes it to another step actually imbedding one into a picture or program file and having those logs sent remotely. I don't know what kinda guy he is but if he hasnt had access to your computer directly, I would doubt you have a keylogger on your comp.

well if you have ever opened any type of file hes sent you... even something as simple as a picture it could be installed on your computer. I am not sure how computer literate he is... so it really depends on that. Also have you tryed changing your passwords following the breakup? He could have had access to them through your relationship without you knowing and just remembers them now.

tired... there are programs called "keyloggers" that he could have installed on your computer. They record every keystroke you make.. so if you have ever typed in your password he will know it. Most keyloggers are running in "hidden" mode and will not pop up unless a complex key sequence is pressed such as ctrl+alt+f+k+e or some other weird crap like that. Or he could have the logs sent to him remotely, i dont know. Virus scanners will identify some key loggers but not all. Only thing you can really do is reformat your computer to insure there is no snooping going on.

My ex and I broke up because of some trust issues. Although I have tryed to contact her, shes been really good at no contact. She also has made it very clear the times we did hang (following breakup) out that she didn't see a future in our relationship. I consider myself above average looking and my ex was a really cute girl. But I keep thinking about how much I f'ed up because I was the one that made the biggest and last mistake that ended our relationship. I also keep thinking that there is no way I can get better then her and I am going to have to settle in the future. I really loved her and it sucks but if we aren't going ot be together I don't want to have these feelings. Is this common in most breakups to put your ex on this pedestal? Being down on yourself because you feel that you let go someone "special" and you won't have a chance at someone like that again? This has been bothering me because I am now 23 and graduating college this December. I dated this girl all through college and we have been broken up for 3 months now. I am worried that once I graduate college all the "good" girls have already been taken. I was supposed to marry this girl but I guess things don't always work out. Soo is it just my emotions playing with me or am I right in thinking this girl was out of my league and why oh why did I f it up?

thanks that is hlpful doya