daviepants

And she's definitely with the new guy again. I just found out tonight..

I'm on day 24. I'm somewhat confused, and I feel very strange. I missed her a lot today, but I feel that I'm slowly detaching myself from the situation. I start class back up on Monday.. that should be a way to forget about her and learn to move on.

Yeah, although talking to her about it won't be of any help.. whenever I ask her if she wants us to be together she says there's no chance.. at least for the time being. I don't know

Yeah on one hand I know she wants to use me for emotional support (and I have no problem giving it to her), but I don't want to be her backup.. or worse.. just her "friend". Right now I haven't talked to her for 3 weeks... I'm just scared that she forgot about me. Or maybe that's exactly what it takes to start over again. I don't know exactly what I want either (that's a problem, too). There are some things I don't like about her (some of her decisions are very foolish), but I want to help her and I want to be with her.

I've honestly read stories of people that got back two weeks later, 2 months later, or 2 years later. Sometimes, the couple never got back together. I think it depends on things outside of your control, but it can happen. At the same time, don't waste your time clinging to a bet.

I need some help/encouragement here. If you don't know my story, my gf (complicated online/offline relationship) of 2.5 years broke up with me about 3 months ago. It was somewhat my fault, but it was also hers for not communicating with me about some of our issues. After she broke up with me, I did something very inappropriate to retaliate (that I regret very much).. I tried getting her back for about 2 months very hard (sweet notes, cards, poems, all that stupid crap).. she basically found someone new that she liked being with and wanted to pursue him... I told her it would never work between them two (they live states away from each other).. and she told me it would never work between us. Needless to say.. he broke up with her the 12th of December. She blamed me for it, etc, etc. But she also started talking to me a LOT more (it was like old times)... BUT like 2 days later she got back together with him. Needless to say, I was heartbroken.. AGAIN. I basically had enough. A day later she sends me a text that says "I'm sorry, David. I know my sorry means nothing to you, but I am." I didn't reply, although I wanted to. December 20th, I get another text message from her that says "By the way, you were right. He turned around and dumped me again." Now, I haven't talked to her since December 12th or so, and I honestly don't plan to. I still think me and her have a future, however. I just don't know how I should approach the situation.. if at all. Right now, I *think* they are together again (I really think/hope it won't last). I heard from a mutual friend that the new guy is just confused, and my ex is waiting for his decision. I don't know what to do. We were so happy.. and now it's all gone. I am a LOT more positive now (and I'm starting class back up in 5 days so that should help with thinking about her the whole time)... but I feel that I still might want her back.

Yeah, more then likely. I should probably just let it die.

LMAO.. they just broke up again.. and she texts me yesterday with this: "By the way, you were right. He turned around and dumped me again." I don't really know what to do/say/whatever. Maybe I'll call her for x-mas, and just wish her holiday's greetings.. and see if SHE wants to talk about it.. I received no calls, no nothing, just that text message yesterday.. why would she care what I know. I just don't understand her at all. =[

Thanks for all the people that are helping me out.. I feel that I'm really stepping away from the situation, and I'm happy about it. I'm still sad, and I still miss her at times, but this just needs to be done.

Yeah well I don't know.. I talked to her again on the phone today.. she keeps blaming us breaking up on me.. well whatever I've had enough of it. I'm just sick of thinking of her.. and she is living in a fantasy world. I'm sad, but she doesn't care. So why should I?

I'm sad

Yeah, I'm confused.. she's sending mixed signals.. she tells me we'll NEVER be together.. but for one day, I know she was considering it at least slightly. Now, she's back to her previous self.

Oops =p