GAbabe15

is it wrong to wanna be able to pause time, but be able to do stuff still... so that i can catch up? ya know? I feel like my life is a runaway horse... and if i could just slow it down a little... maybe i could regain control or something. There's just so much going on right now and i have so much to do and think about. I wish i knew how to handel it all. any suggestions?

How do i know when I'm in love? How do i know that my boyfriend is serious when he says he loves me? Is it possible to be afraid of love? I think I am. I have SOOOO many questions about love. I dont understand it, but i guess thats because ive never been in love. i thought i had been a while ago, but i was wrong. How do i know that im not wrong the next time i think im in love? Anything would be helpful... please

My mother drives me crazy for 5 reasons: 1- She treats me like a 4 year old 2- She has told me that I'm fat and that I need to lose weight for the past 3 years since I was 12 ( I'm 5'6" and 145lbs) 3- I've only been in trouble ONCE and still she keeps like a 6 inch leash on me 4- She gets mad at me and takes things out on me, and when I ask her why she's mad, she never has a reason and just says "I don't know" 5- She makes me feel like my opinions don't matter. I don't feel like I can tell her anything... even the simple things. When I do try to approach her, it feels like she backs me into a corner. I want to be able to tell her how I feel and how much she hurts me, but almost I'm scared that she will get mad at me for feeling that way. I try to be sooooo perfect for her. I've only been in trouble once, and that was for being late for cerfew. I bust my ass to keep my grades high (my lowest this whole year was a 96% and I'm in advanced and honors classes) and be just perfect for her in general... but she doesn't seem to notice or care. I'm such a tightass for it, and I want to be able to relax and have fun, but I'm just sooo terrified of her that I can't. I've become such a Daddy's girl now because I'm trying to get away from her so much. I love him. He breaks up our fights, and is the rational third party in just about everything. If I didn't have him around, I don't know where I'd be. Please... I really don't want this to go on any longer. I want to have a good relationship with my mother. I want to be able to trust her, and I want her to trust me. If anyone has any advice on how I can approach my mother without getting terrified and chickening out like always, it would be greatly appreciated. Or even any advice in general. Anything would help, whether it's just to know that I'm not alone in this, or advice on how I can deal with her for the next three years until I graduate. Thanks.

Hey yall... I'm like the MOST indecicive (sp?) person ever and my boyfriend wants me to choose what we do tonight... any fun date suggestions? They would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!

Hey honey... DON'T RESORT TO SUICIDE! PLEASE! No one benefits from that, not matter how much you might think otherwise. Not having a GF isn't that big of a deal. Trust me. I'm your age, and i have plenty of friends that never had a girlfriend. What you need to do it try and be happy without one. You don't NEED a gf; you just REALLY want one (which is totally normal). For the longest time i thought i NEEDED a BF in order to be happy, but then i just decided i was wasting my time being upset and i should just try to enjoy life and have fun. I don't really know what happened after that but i guess that personality type is attractive cause i got a boyfriend (not right away... but still). My older brother never really had a gf til his senior year and then he found this really great girl and they went out for over a year. So my advice to you is to relax, and don't worry so much about it. HAVE FUN!!!

Hey, I know what you're going through except I have the viewpoint of your 14 year old. At the beginning of this year i was a freshman in highschool and met this really cool senior guy. He wasn't the typical senior just after sex or anything, he was really cool. So we got to know each other pretty well. The problem was he had a GF. Anyway... my parents weren't happy with the situation AT ALL. They threatened to tell his parents to keep him away from me, and even considered taking legal action. He's now 18 and I'm 15, but that doesn't change much. My parents still hate him, and we aren't together. I dont really know the background of your relationship, but here's my advice: Stay on good terms with her parents... they're the only ones that the age difference should matter with. Yes, i will admit that us youngins aren't nearly as mature as we should be to be involved with a legal adult, but that doesn't mean that it's impossible. I knew this guy soooo well and i really think he was my first love even if we never got together. He still is one of my best friends though. So yeah... If you want to be with her, go for it, just make sure that her parents are on your side and then you should be set.

My life is in complete chaos right now. 1- i recently found out one of my best friends has an eating disorder... and i have NO clue what to do now. 2- another one of my best friends was totally taken advantage of by this guy that's 3 years older than her 3- I have to write a 3 page paper (which ive barely started) thats due tomorrow AND study for finals 4- (here's the big one) I've liked this guy (lets just call him J) for about 10 months now on and off. I know him soooo well and feel really comfortable around him. the thing is... he has a girlfriend. I knew he liked me for the longest time... but he wouldn't break up with his girlfriend and i kinda lost interest. So about a month and a half ago i started to like him again and talked to him and found out he felt the same way. but he's about to graduate and go off to college so i told him i didnt want to be his girlfriend (there were 40 other reasons i didnt want to then either). I really did like this guy though... SO much. I often wonder if he was my first love. But why didnt he ever break up with her if he liked me so much like he said he did? he would always say he was in the process of breaking up, but to me... that is a ONE STEP process. please correct me if i am wrong. anyway... i know me and J still have feeling for each other... but i really like this other guy too (call him B). I hooked up with him the other night... and have been talking to him on a regular basis since. he's really funny and is like the complete oppsite of J. J still has a girlfriend... but tells me that it hurts to hear about B. I dont want to hurt him. he's one of my best friends and i do still care about him. I know i made the mistake of not getting with J in the first place... But i don't want to make another mistake. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!? Go for B or J?!?!?