ok so heres the deal
I was dating this girl for 6 months, at the beginning i was basically an * * * * * * *, i joked around with her a lot and made fun of her and stuff, but only jokingly...we continued dating and she said she loved me, she told me that she would get really depressed when i made fun of her and so i stopped. we still dated for 3 months and throughout almost that whole time she was still saying she loved me, and it seemed as though she meant it, she was always all over me...she wouldnt let me leave her side for a second when she was with me...she would physically hold me there! she said she wanted to marry me...i never took that seriously or anything just another point, i did everything i could for her, more than her own parents did for her, more than any other person in the world has ever done for her...she ended up losing interest...we broke up the longest time she wouldnt tell me what had happened then she finally did...she said she felt suffocated like i liked her to much, so instead of telling me she decided to be mean to me and try and make it dull down a bit...but of course thats not gunna work cuz ill just be thinking about how i can make it better then she decided a break might work...again all im gunna be thinking about is the latter...i told her all she had to do is tell me...and now shes lost all interest.
The extremely weird thing about the end of our relationship is that whenever we would hang out even afterward she would be all over me again, like being with me made her want me again idk...so she decided not to hang out with me anymore but still wants to be friends...i havent seen her in 2 months and its tearing me apart
I really want to get her back, i love her more than anything, ive tried being the way is was when we met but the thing is i cant joke around with her the way i used to as effectivly because she now knows its just an act when i am an * * * * * * *...i just want to know from anyone with experience, especially women what my prospects are of getting her back and how i can...
like maybe try to get her jealous or not talk to her as much with the whole "absense makes the heart grow fonder" thing...but with that theres the risk of out of sight out of mind as well
