scsavino
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Better today. Went out with a guy yesterday. I forgot for awhile.
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I love this: The “No Contact” Contract: I hereby pledge that I will not prolong my anguish by attempting to contacting my ex or to orchestrate any elaborate “accidental” meeting with him or her. My healing has now begun and I will avoid re-opening those wounds like I would avoid a bear trap in the woods. I promise that, by “contacting my ex” I mean every single form of communication from IM, to chat boards, to friends passing messages, to sending smoke signals from yonder mountain. I will not call or write, I will not try to reach him/her through the spirit world, and I will not think about my ex. Okay, I probably will think about my ex… quite a bit in fact. But I promise that this phenomenon will diminish over time. Signed: (Your Name Here) __________________________________ Dated: (Today’s Date Here) _________________________________
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Hurts very much- he never called me back
scsavino replied to krissbrown's topic in Breaking Up Advice
if he isn't dead .... then move on. He gave you a message. Heed to it. Don't waste anymore of your time. -
and going through Hell I am.
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Im still angry, yeah ...... but now I dont think of him as often as I did. And when I do think of him, its brief. And then it goes away. I think Ive turned a corner.
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Developing an unhealthy obsession over ex, that scares me!
scsavino replied to Scorpio8647's topic in Breaking Up Advice
you arent worthless. You are hurt. And in time ..... it will pass. Seek someone out to talk to. -
still NC ... yay for me. Hope everyone is well.
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I feel like I have become this walking thing of anger. And it feels good. I would rather feel like this than the pain I was feeling. Thanks Beec.
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ok, first thing. You arent stupid. Love makes people do things normally you wouldnt do. Thats all. You love this girl. You wanted it to work. But you cant make someone stay and you cant make someone love you. Take a breath. Re-group. Know that this way of being with her is no good for you. Dont worry about her. Be strong. Be true. We're here.
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it felt pretty good ... at first. Then I was crying. But no one saw that. Im done with letting him use me.
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This is so damn true. One day you feel ok .. never great, but ok. Then one day you feel like someone punched you in the chest. You cant sleep. You cant eat. You cant think about anything except what they did and how could they do it. You wake up and immediately you think of them. Then some days, everything is smooth. Stay strong. It will get better.
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proud of you. Keep it up.
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he wanted me to go with him to his divorce hearing. My question to him was why didnt he take his new gf? Silence. I hung up.
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NC was broken ... he called me last night .... I cant stand this.
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18 months and not over it? Oh, God, now Im worried. About me.