amerie_milian

Eh, *shrug*, I mean it's not a huge deal to me or anything, I was just wondering if I should be slightly insulted or something. I mean, I've never had a problem with other men before with the girl-on-top position, but I guess it's more common than I thought judging by the responses.

Though he loves it and is always asking me to be on top. So why can't he bust-a-nut that way? He can every other way. He told me he's never been able to come that way.

Thanks for the responses guys, I do appreciate it. L-o-l at Mikeca. But I'm just wondering, what do you guys mean when you say he might just be concentrating? What does he need to concentrate on if feels great?? I don't know if you all mean he needs to concentrate to get off (implying it's hard for him to do so and he's struggling to do it, or at least in my paranoid mind) or you mean he has to concentrate to make it last and not orgasm. Someone please clarify.

And to add to this query, do men generally fantasize about other stuff when they're having sex with you, or is it all you, and only you?? When they are having sex with you, do most fantasize about porn they've seen or hot celebrities or other hot chicks they've seen? This is really a question for the guys, females welcome, but I really want men to answer.

...then does that mean he's fantasizing about other (and hotter/sexier) women or porn he's seen or any other kind of fantasy??? Does that mean he doesn't want to see you when you're having sex because he's trying to fantasize about something else so he can get off? Something much more interesting than you? I ask this because yes I'm insecure and feel like I've gained some lbs recently. I'm not ugly at all (people tell me I am attractive all of the time) but I know my body isn't as great as it was. And I see girls all the time that look so much better, even if their face isn't as pretty. It kind of seems to me like my guy looks away when we're having sex, even if we're in the dark, which usually we are. But if we do it in broad daylight (which we've done) he still looks away. He puts his face in my shoulder or neck and closes his eyes and does his thing. At night he does the same thing. Last night I was on top and he did look at me a few times but for the most part, he turned his head away from me and closed his eyes. What does this mean??? Am I overreacting because I'm insecure? I mean, he does try to get sex from me all of the time, but.. still.

link removed I read above that you can charge over the limit, but it comes with a high price. Another site said it's a common misbelief that your card will be denied if you go over your limit when purchasing. It said credit card companies LIKE it when you do that because they make more money off of it. My boyfriend said that he has charged $100 over his limit before. Kitty, the reason why I got that card with such high fees is because it's the ONLY card that would accept my application without a bank account, and every other card I signed up for declined me. And it's Xmas, I have to have this way to purchase things regardless. It sucks but there's nothing I can do. She's2smart, like I said, it's the only card that would accept me. I did do my homework as far as my knowledge extends. There were other cards that seemed decent but required a deposit with a checking account.

Okay, I signed up for a credit card, and it's coming in the mail shortly. It's got a $50 credit limit on it. Well, originally it was $350 but they charge you $250 in fees (for those with not-so-good or limited credit) so you're then left with $50 in credit. What does this mean, exactly? If I go $30 over the $50 limit, will it stop me? Will the cashier tell me my card has been declined or it says "over limit"? ??? Or will it keep letting me purchase things, and later on the bill will reflect that I went over the limit and charge me extra fees? I know there are Over Limit fees for going over the credit limit on credit cards generally, but if a card has a limit, does that mean you can't go over it? I was kinda thinking, how is it possible to go over the limit if the card has a limit? If you could wouldn't the limit be kinda pointless? Someone explain this to me, I'm confused.

Umm... yeah. Kind of seems like you're the "other woman" and you've not yet realized this. Why else would he require you not leave any 'questionable' messages on his voicemail? Because he doesn't want his woman to know that he's got a "chick on the side." Leave him.

And it's very clear that you feel horribly about it, and that you feel guilty. You've got a conscience; you can make a positive change. Good luck.

There's a definite chance. The only thing you can do is BE HONEST with your doctor. You might need to enroll in some sort of drug counselling program as well, (and make sure your doctor is aware of this.)

Well, this makes me feel even worse. Everyone here says their guys always have boners when they make out, and all the guys say the same. Mine never does anymore, until I start touching it (and even then it takes a minute..)